"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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are some chicks just too dumb ?

bootlegger

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some chicks too dumb to dj?


this chick I talked to is so ditsy, nieve, etc.


Is she too dumb to be played?

or is she a deer in the headlights? how so?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No. The dumber the chick, the more effective DJ tactics are. In fact, the really dumb ones don't really require tactics, they'll **** anything. Beyond that, though, you're dealing with compulsive and psycho chicks, so watch out.

I dated a girl who was way less intelligent than me, and it was sort of a problem. The techniques got her all hot and bothered, but intellectually our conversations were really boring to me. When we broke up, she described the opposite, that she was always struggling to catch up with what I said.

For LTRs, you'd do better with someone on your own level.
 

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Originally posted by MackJr
No. The dumber the chick, the more effective DJ tactics are. In fact, the really dumb ones don't really require tactics, they'll **** anything. Beyond that, though, you're dealing with compulsive and psycho chicks, so watch out.

I dated a girl who was way less intelligent than me, and it was sort of a problem. The techniques got her all hot and bothered, but intellectually our conversations were really boring to me. When we broke up, she described the opposite, that she was always struggling to catch up with what I said.

For LTRs, you'd do better with someone on your own level.
Perfect.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJUofS

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Originally posted by MackJr
No. The dumber the chick, the more effective DJ tactics are. In fact, the really dumb ones don't really require tactics, they'll **** anything. Beyond that, though, you're dealing with compulsive and psycho chicks, so watch out.

I dated a girl who was way less intelligent than me, and it was sort of a problem. The techniques got her all hot and bothered, but intellectually our conversations were really boring to me. When we broke up, she described the opposite, that she was always struggling to catch up with what I said.

For LTRs, you'd do better with someone on your own level.
Yeah, my ex is a super ditz. I just asked my best friend the other day what I was thinking dating someone like that. The ditzier, the more annoying.
 

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i just want to sleep with her.
But she seems to be on another planet.

I'll playfully bump into her, and she'll jump back and start saying how sorry she is-etc - even though I'm looking her right in the eyes smiling before I bump her.
 

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Originally posted by bootlegger
i just want to sleep with her.
But she seems to be on another planet.

I'll playfully bump into her, and she'll jump back and start saying how sorry she is-etc - even though I'm looking her right in the eyes smiling before I bump her.
If it's really bad it might be an act.
 

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word from the people that know her, is that it is not an act.
 

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Yes.

Seriously, for a woman to understand most neg-hits, she needs to be smarter than a potted plant. Luckily dumb girls make up for it by being easy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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