If the marriage is about a power struggle, it is doomed from the start.
Too many men sacrifice their own values and happiness to appease their wives. Some people are never happy, and no amount of sacrificing will fill their void.
Self-sacrificing is about fear. Fear that she will withhold sex, love, or even walk away if he does not change for her or devote himself for her happiness.
I have seen a handful of instances where the dominant wife/girlfriend is verbally harassed/abused by someone, and her otherwise obedient husband/boyfriend stood by and did nothing. The women were each shocked when they were holding his balls.
A man must maintain his inner strength and security that his wife and eventual family can draw from.
Like others are said certain areas are a compromise, a marriage is about two. He must not lose his self respect or values. He must not lose his willingness to walk away, not as a continual threat, but as the final point of no return.
Too many men sacrifice their own values and happiness to appease their wives. Some people are never happy, and no amount of sacrificing will fill their void.
Self-sacrificing is about fear. Fear that she will withhold sex, love, or even walk away if he does not change for her or devote himself for her happiness.
I have seen a handful of instances where the dominant wife/girlfriend is verbally harassed/abused by someone, and her otherwise obedient husband/boyfriend stood by and did nothing. The women were each shocked when they were holding his balls.
A man must maintain his inner strength and security that his wife and eventual family can draw from.
Like others are said certain areas are a compromise, a marriage is about two. He must not lose his self respect or values. He must not lose his willingness to walk away, not as a continual threat, but as the final point of no return.
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