mahon83050
Banned
Are you a brotha?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Originally posted by BlackJackal
I'ma brotha. And arabian girls are on my list of hot type of girls. I still like black women the most, but arabian women have a tied 2nd place with latina women on my list.
I have to agree with this brother .... they are very insecure and that's why I think the trust process takes such a lone time.Originally posted by MindOverMatter
i've never dated more insecure girls, they all think you're cheating on them all the time, follow you to clubs with their girls to check up on you, and are just unstable as hell.
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I think he meant 12 brothers + 50 cousins + 50 of her friends will come after your azz ! :crackup:Originally posted by MindOverMatter
plus, they all come from heavily populated families, so for every persian / arabic girl you date, she will have like 5-7 brothers, and like 15-20 cousins. combine this with an unstable personality, and u are playing with fire.
no thanks man.
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Originally posted by mahon83050
So much for the Stereotype that Girls with Blonde hair and fair skin are the best looking. I sure do not feel that way, as I think blondes are highly overrated. I am all about the Dark hair, non-fair skin and light colored eyes...which alot of Arabic girls, Latina Girls and other European girls have.
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I see what your saying, but at ther same time, we are all a nation of muts, so there is no particular look, especially in england, and even though I don't think we have the most stunning girls in the world, there are definatly some fit ones about.Personally, I think girls from the British Isles...especially Ireland and Scotland are at the bottom of the Totem pole when it comes to looks. Red or Blonde Hair with Freckles and or Fair Sunburn proned skin is not very attractive. [/B]
Yeah them arabian guys dont play..lol. If you gonna go out with their, I hope you got yourself a gun. I know I do..lol.Originally posted by Impact
I have to agree with you on this dannyc, they are really beatiful women, but they also have brothers that like to slit throats :crackup: so take care!
all the best
And fathers, too. I dated a Pakistani girl in college whose father was a Sikh. She was well Americanized but he wasn't into it. By her description, he was seriously, murderously pi$$ed at me even though I'd never met him. The men take that whole virginity thing very, very seriously.Originally posted by Impact
I have to agree with you on this dannyc, they are really beatiful women, but they also have brothers that like to slit throats :crackup: so take care!
all the best
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.