mahon83050
Banned
Are you a brotha?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Originally posted by BlackJackal
I'ma brotha. And arabian girls are on my list of hot type of girls. I still like black women the most, but arabian women have a tied 2nd place with latina women on my list.
I have to agree with this brother .... they are very insecure and that's why I think the trust process takes such a lone time.Originally posted by MindOverMatter
i've never dated more insecure girls, they all think you're cheating on them all the time, follow you to clubs with their girls to check up on you, and are just unstable as hell.
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I think he meant 12 brothers + 50 cousins + 50 of her friends will come after your azz ! :crackup:Originally posted by MindOverMatter
plus, they all come from heavily populated families, so for every persian / arabic girl you date, she will have like 5-7 brothers, and like 15-20 cousins. combine this with an unstable personality, and u are playing with fire.
no thanks man.
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Originally posted by mahon83050
So much for the Stereotype that Girls with Blonde hair and fair skin are the best looking. I sure do not feel that way, as I think blondes are highly overrated. I am all about the Dark hair, non-fair skin and light colored eyes...which alot of Arabic girls, Latina Girls and other European girls have.
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I see what your saying, but at ther same time, we are all a nation of muts, so there is no particular look, especially in england, and even though I don't think we have the most stunning girls in the world, there are definatly some fit ones about.Personally, I think girls from the British Isles...especially Ireland and Scotland are at the bottom of the Totem pole when it comes to looks. Red or Blonde Hair with Freckles and or Fair Sunburn proned skin is not very attractive. [/B]
Yeah them arabian guys dont play..lol. If you gonna go out with their, I hope you got yourself a gun. I know I do..lol.Originally posted by Impact
I have to agree with you on this dannyc, they are really beatiful women, but they also have brothers that like to slit throats :crackup: so take care!
all the best
And fathers, too. I dated a Pakistani girl in college whose father was a Sikh. She was well Americanized but he wasn't into it. By her description, he was seriously, murderously pi$$ed at me even though I'd never met him. The men take that whole virginity thing very, very seriously.Originally posted by Impact
I have to agree with you on this dannyc, they are really beatiful women, but they also have brothers that like to slit throats :crackup: so take care!
all the best
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.