"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Arabic girls

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BlackJackal

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I'ma brotha. And arabian girls are on my list of hot type of girls. I still like black women the most, but arabian women have a tied 2nd place with latina women on my list.
 

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i've been with several lebanese / syrian girls (ontario is full of them), and i don't do it anymore. yes they're by far my type (dark hair, tanned skin, usually virgins), but they're all insane. i've never dated more insecure girls, they all think you're cheating on them all the time, follow you to clubs with their girls to check up on you, and are just unstable as hell.

plus, they all come from heavily populated families, so for every persian / arabic girl you date, she will have like 5-7 brothers, and like 15-20 cousins. combine this with an unstable personality, and u are playing with fire.

no thanks man.
 

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Originally posted by BlackJackal
I'ma brotha. And arabian girls are on my list of hot type of girls. I still like black women the most, but arabian women have a tied 2nd place with latina women on my list.


So much for the Stereotype that Girls with Blonde hair and fair skin are the best looking. I sure do not feel that way, as I think blondes are highly overrated. I am all about the Dark hair, non-fair skin and light colored eyes...which alot of Arabic girls, Latina Girls and other European girls have.

Personally, I think girls from the British Isles...especially Ireland and Scotland are at the bottom of the Totem pole when it comes to looks. Red or Blonde Hair with Freckles and or Fair Sunburn proned skin is not very attractive.
 

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
i've never dated more insecure girls, they all think you're cheating on them all the time, follow you to clubs with their girls to check up on you, and are just unstable as hell.
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I have to agree with this brother .... they are very insecure and that's why I think the trust process takes such a lone time.

Originally posted by MindOverMatter
plus, they all come from heavily populated families, so for every persian / arabic girl you date, she will have like 5-7 brothers, and like 15-20 cousins. combine this with an unstable personality, and u are playing with fire.

no thanks man.
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I think he meant 12 brothers + 50 cousins + 50 of her friends will come after your azz ! :crackup:

I once actuall asked an Arabic girl and she gave me her email. I told her ' are your brothers or cousins gonna come after me ? ' she started laughing :woo:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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my 2c..

Italian / Spannish etc... some of those girls just do it for me.... My "perfect" type of girl (looks) is tanned, dark black hair, slim body, and that accent just finishes it off:up:

In a year or 2 i am going to go traveling with some friends, Spain, Italy, France, all those places are a MUST for me... I'm hoping to find me a beautiful girl there and bring her back with me:D

Anyways... just my 2c;)


Laterz...
 

Not Quite There

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Originally posted by mahon83050
So much for the Stereotype that Girls with Blonde hair and fair skin are the best looking. I sure do not feel that way, as I think blondes are highly overrated. I am all about the Dark hair, non-fair skin and light colored eyes...which alot of Arabic girls, Latina Girls and other European girls have.
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thats cool your not into blondes, more for me :D

but have you been to scandinavia? i think your opinion might change if you went there.

mind you, when you see a stunning brunette, there, you know she is fit!



Personally, I think girls from the British Isles...especially Ireland and Scotland are at the bottom of the Totem pole when it comes to looks. Red or Blonde Hair with Freckles and or Fair Sunburn proned skin is not very attractive. [/B]
I see what your saying, but at ther same time, we are all a nation of muts, so there is no particular look, especially in england, and even though I don't think we have the most stunning girls in the world, there are definatly some fit ones about.

and on the subject of this topic, there are lots of indian and packistani girls here too, especially where i live, i prefer white girls, but there are definatly some fit ones about. I kind of had a similar situation to what flyinshark described on a beach in barcelona. :D But my point is, we have all sorts of girls here.

As for Ireland, i've met some girls with amazing natural beauty from there, but maybe i just find them attractive because its where my family comes from. :rolleyes:
 

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I have to agree with you on this dannyc, they are really beatiful women, but they also have brothers that like to slit throats :crackup: so take care!
all the best
 

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Originally posted by Impact
I have to agree with you on this dannyc, they are really beatiful women, but they also have brothers that like to slit throats :crackup: so take care!
all the best
Yeah them arabian guys dont play..lol. If you gonna go out with their, I hope you got yourself a gun. I know I do..lol.
 

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Originally posted by Impact
I have to agree with you on this dannyc, they are really beatiful women, but they also have brothers that like to slit throats :crackup: so take care!
all the best
And fathers, too. I dated a Pakistani girl in college whose father was a Sikh. She was well Americanized but he wasn't into it. By her description, he was seriously, murderously pi$$ed at me even though I'd never met him. The men take that whole virginity thing very, very seriously.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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