mahon83050
Banned
Are you a brotha?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Originally posted by BlackJackal
I'ma brotha. And arabian girls are on my list of hot type of girls. I still like black women the most, but arabian women have a tied 2nd place with latina women on my list.
I have to agree with this brother .... they are very insecure and that's why I think the trust process takes such a lone time.Originally posted by MindOverMatter
i've never dated more insecure girls, they all think you're cheating on them all the time, follow you to clubs with their girls to check up on you, and are just unstable as hell.
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I think he meant 12 brothers + 50 cousins + 50 of her friends will come after your azz ! :crackup:Originally posted by MindOverMatter
plus, they all come from heavily populated families, so for every persian / arabic girl you date, she will have like 5-7 brothers, and like 15-20 cousins. combine this with an unstable personality, and u are playing with fire.
no thanks man.
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Originally posted by mahon83050
So much for the Stereotype that Girls with Blonde hair and fair skin are the best looking. I sure do not feel that way, as I think blondes are highly overrated. I am all about the Dark hair, non-fair skin and light colored eyes...which alot of Arabic girls, Latina Girls and other European girls have.
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I see what your saying, but at ther same time, we are all a nation of muts, so there is no particular look, especially in england, and even though I don't think we have the most stunning girls in the world, there are definatly some fit ones about.Personally, I think girls from the British Isles...especially Ireland and Scotland are at the bottom of the Totem pole when it comes to looks. Red or Blonde Hair with Freckles and or Fair Sunburn proned skin is not very attractive. [/B]
Yeah them arabian guys dont play..lol. If you gonna go out with their, I hope you got yourself a gun. I know I do..lol.Originally posted by Impact
I have to agree with you on this dannyc, they are really beatiful women, but they also have brothers that like to slit throats :crackup: so take care!
all the best
And fathers, too. I dated a Pakistani girl in college whose father was a Sikh. She was well Americanized but he wasn't into it. By her description, he was seriously, murderously pi$$ed at me even though I'd never met him. The men take that whole virginity thing very, very seriously.Originally posted by Impact
I have to agree with you on this dannyc, they are really beatiful women, but they also have brothers that like to slit throats :crackup: so take care!
all the best
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.