"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i saw this girl really atrractive girl in radioshack, she works there too, and i talk to her and asked her for her number but she said she had a bf then i ask do you want my number she was like i can't take your number he will get mad if i had a boy number that he doesn't know in her phone but she said "come back in three weeks and me n bf, by that time we will break up. then i'll give you my number".

should i believe her or don't trust her
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why not believe her? You have nothing to lose, but make it 4. Don't do what she tells you to do.
 

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"come back in three weeks and me n bf, by that time we will break up. then i'll give you my number"

do you really mean to believe that? u know what, if she was interested in u, she would not have brought up her bf thing and even, if u had asked she would have answered like it doesnt matter for her.

how the hell does she know that she will break up in three weeks? u should have asked that instantly....

anyways, she is a short term one and maybe with some superficial attraction, u can take her to bed, but not LTR.
 

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should i tell her that im a vigin, because i hear girls like virgins but the relationship doen't usually last that long and this girl that i approached was a pertect 10 with great body and face
 

schttrj

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icebox360 said:
should i tell her that im a vigin, because i hear girls like virgins but the relationship doen't usually last that long and this girl that i approached was a pertect 10 with great body and face
depends on the girl but as long as my experience goes, girls love high status experienced guys!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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move on. she lied to you in a nice way.
 

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come back in three weeks and me n bf, by that time we will break up. then i'll give you my number".
So you said, "Tell you what: Give me your number now, and I'll call you in three weeks", right? You didn't? If you had, then you'd see her say "Uh uh uh uh..."

Let me predict what will happen in three weeks if you go back. She'll tell you either that they didn't break up or that she has a new boyfriend already and that you're too late. Or maybe she knows she will have left that job by then and won't even be there anymore.
 

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Mr. Me said:
Let me predict what will happen in three weeks if you go back. She'll tell you either that they didn't break up or that she has a new boyfriend already and that you're too late. Or maybe she knows she will have left that job by then and won't even be there anymore.
Lol exactly what i was going to say .

Cmon dude , she's making fun of you .

If she wants , she can come and ask you to take her number . Otherwise , fvck it :box:
 

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Mr. Me said:
So you said, "Tell you what: Give me your number now, and I'll call you in three weeks", right? You didn't? If you had, then you'd see her say "Uh uh uh uh..."

Let me predict what will happen in three weeks if you go back. She'll tell you either that they didn't break up or that she has a new boyfriend already and that you're too late. Or maybe she knows she will have left that job by then and won't even be there anymore.

lol that may be true, everything was happening so fast, anyways i didn't want to get her in trouble by her boss, i think i should just comeback before 3 weeks , what should i do?
 

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I would say don't go back, would show signs of neediness, unless you make it look like you're not there to see her specifically


I'd say she was strining you along or something, not many girls who say that would actually follow it up.

Anyways, it's your choice mate, you can only live and learn
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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