"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i saw this girl really atrractive girl in radioshack, she works there too, and i talk to her and asked her for her number but she said she had a bf then i ask do you want my number she was like i can't take your number he will get mad if i had a boy number that he doesn't know in her phone but she said "come back in three weeks and me n bf, by that time we will break up. then i'll give you my number".

should i believe her or don't trust her
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why not believe her? You have nothing to lose, but make it 4. Don't do what she tells you to do.
 

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"come back in three weeks and me n bf, by that time we will break up. then i'll give you my number"

do you really mean to believe that? u know what, if she was interested in u, she would not have brought up her bf thing and even, if u had asked she would have answered like it doesnt matter for her.

how the hell does she know that she will break up in three weeks? u should have asked that instantly....

anyways, she is a short term one and maybe with some superficial attraction, u can take her to bed, but not LTR.
 

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should i tell her that im a vigin, because i hear girls like virgins but the relationship doen't usually last that long and this girl that i approached was a pertect 10 with great body and face
 

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icebox360 said:
should i tell her that im a vigin, because i hear girls like virgins but the relationship doen't usually last that long and this girl that i approached was a pertect 10 with great body and face
depends on the girl but as long as my experience goes, girls love high status experienced guys!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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move on. she lied to you in a nice way.
 

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come back in three weeks and me n bf, by that time we will break up. then i'll give you my number".
So you said, "Tell you what: Give me your number now, and I'll call you in three weeks", right? You didn't? If you had, then you'd see her say "Uh uh uh uh..."

Let me predict what will happen in three weeks if you go back. She'll tell you either that they didn't break up or that she has a new boyfriend already and that you're too late. Or maybe she knows she will have left that job by then and won't even be there anymore.
 

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Mr. Me said:
Let me predict what will happen in three weeks if you go back. She'll tell you either that they didn't break up or that she has a new boyfriend already and that you're too late. Or maybe she knows she will have left that job by then and won't even be there anymore.
Lol exactly what i was going to say .

Cmon dude , she's making fun of you .

If she wants , she can come and ask you to take her number . Otherwise , fvck it :box:
 

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Mr. Me said:
So you said, "Tell you what: Give me your number now, and I'll call you in three weeks", right? You didn't? If you had, then you'd see her say "Uh uh uh uh..."

Let me predict what will happen in three weeks if you go back. She'll tell you either that they didn't break up or that she has a new boyfriend already and that you're too late. Or maybe she knows she will have left that job by then and won't even be there anymore.

lol that may be true, everything was happening so fast, anyways i didn't want to get her in trouble by her boss, i think i should just comeback before 3 weeks , what should i do?
 

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I would say don't go back, would show signs of neediness, unless you make it look like you're not there to see her specifically


I'd say she was strining you along or something, not many girls who say that would actually follow it up.

Anyways, it's your choice mate, you can only live and learn
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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