"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i saw this girl really atrractive girl in radioshack, she works there too, and i talk to her and asked her for her number but she said she had a bf then i ask do you want my number she was like i can't take your number he will get mad if i had a boy number that he doesn't know in her phone but she said "come back in three weeks and me n bf, by that time we will break up. then i'll give you my number".

should i believe her or don't trust her
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Why not believe her? You have nothing to lose, but make it 4. Don't do what she tells you to do.
 

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"come back in three weeks and me n bf, by that time we will break up. then i'll give you my number"

do you really mean to believe that? u know what, if she was interested in u, she would not have brought up her bf thing and even, if u had asked she would have answered like it doesnt matter for her.

how the hell does she know that she will break up in three weeks? u should have asked that instantly....

anyways, she is a short term one and maybe with some superficial attraction, u can take her to bed, but not LTR.
 

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should i tell her that im a vigin, because i hear girls like virgins but the relationship doen't usually last that long and this girl that i approached was a pertect 10 with great body and face
 

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icebox360 said:
should i tell her that im a vigin, because i hear girls like virgins but the relationship doen't usually last that long and this girl that i approached was a pertect 10 with great body and face
depends on the girl but as long as my experience goes, girls love high status experienced guys!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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move on. she lied to you in a nice way.
 

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come back in three weeks and me n bf, by that time we will break up. then i'll give you my number".
So you said, "Tell you what: Give me your number now, and I'll call you in three weeks", right? You didn't? If you had, then you'd see her say "Uh uh uh uh..."

Let me predict what will happen in three weeks if you go back. She'll tell you either that they didn't break up or that she has a new boyfriend already and that you're too late. Or maybe she knows she will have left that job by then and won't even be there anymore.
 

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Mr. Me said:
Let me predict what will happen in three weeks if you go back. She'll tell you either that they didn't break up or that she has a new boyfriend already and that you're too late. Or maybe she knows she will have left that job by then and won't even be there anymore.
Lol exactly what i was going to say .

Cmon dude , she's making fun of you .

If she wants , she can come and ask you to take her number . Otherwise , fvck it :box:
 

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Mr. Me said:
So you said, "Tell you what: Give me your number now, and I'll call you in three weeks", right? You didn't? If you had, then you'd see her say "Uh uh uh uh..."

Let me predict what will happen in three weeks if you go back. She'll tell you either that they didn't break up or that she has a new boyfriend already and that you're too late. Or maybe she knows she will have left that job by then and won't even be there anymore.

lol that may be true, everything was happening so fast, anyways i didn't want to get her in trouble by her boss, i think i should just comeback before 3 weeks , what should i do?
 

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I would say don't go back, would show signs of neediness, unless you make it look like you're not there to see her specifically


I'd say she was strining you along or something, not many girls who say that would actually follow it up.

Anyways, it's your choice mate, you can only live and learn
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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