"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i saw this girl really atrractive girl in radioshack, she works there too, and i talk to her and asked her for her number but she said she had a bf then i ask do you want my number she was like i can't take your number he will get mad if i had a boy number that he doesn't know in her phone but she said "come back in three weeks and me n bf, by that time we will break up. then i'll give you my number".

should i believe her or don't trust her
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why not believe her? You have nothing to lose, but make it 4. Don't do what she tells you to do.
 

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"come back in three weeks and me n bf, by that time we will break up. then i'll give you my number"

do you really mean to believe that? u know what, if she was interested in u, she would not have brought up her bf thing and even, if u had asked she would have answered like it doesnt matter for her.

how the hell does she know that she will break up in three weeks? u should have asked that instantly....

anyways, she is a short term one and maybe with some superficial attraction, u can take her to bed, but not LTR.
 

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should i tell her that im a vigin, because i hear girls like virgins but the relationship doen't usually last that long and this girl that i approached was a pertect 10 with great body and face
 

schttrj

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icebox360 said:
should i tell her that im a vigin, because i hear girls like virgins but the relationship doen't usually last that long and this girl that i approached was a pertect 10 with great body and face
depends on the girl but as long as my experience goes, girls love high status experienced guys!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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move on. she lied to you in a nice way.
 

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come back in three weeks and me n bf, by that time we will break up. then i'll give you my number".
So you said, "Tell you what: Give me your number now, and I'll call you in three weeks", right? You didn't? If you had, then you'd see her say "Uh uh uh uh..."

Let me predict what will happen in three weeks if you go back. She'll tell you either that they didn't break up or that she has a new boyfriend already and that you're too late. Or maybe she knows she will have left that job by then and won't even be there anymore.
 

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Mr. Me said:
Let me predict what will happen in three weeks if you go back. She'll tell you either that they didn't break up or that she has a new boyfriend already and that you're too late. Or maybe she knows she will have left that job by then and won't even be there anymore.
Lol exactly what i was going to say .

Cmon dude , she's making fun of you .

If she wants , she can come and ask you to take her number . Otherwise , fvck it :box:
 

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Mr. Me said:
So you said, "Tell you what: Give me your number now, and I'll call you in three weeks", right? You didn't? If you had, then you'd see her say "Uh uh uh uh..."

Let me predict what will happen in three weeks if you go back. She'll tell you either that they didn't break up or that she has a new boyfriend already and that you're too late. Or maybe she knows she will have left that job by then and won't even be there anymore.

lol that may be true, everything was happening so fast, anyways i didn't want to get her in trouble by her boss, i think i should just comeback before 3 weeks , what should i do?
 

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I would say don't go back, would show signs of neediness, unless you make it look like you're not there to see her specifically


I'd say she was strining you along or something, not many girls who say that would actually follow it up.

Anyways, it's your choice mate, you can only live and learn
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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