When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Here's what you do...go buy a cheap watch with an alarm. Set the alarm for 5 or 6 am. If you have any cheap dorm beds, like I did in the dorms, open up the metal tubing and hid the watch in your buddies bed, in the tubing somewhere.i am me said:lol
i was thinkin of posting a personal ad on craigslist or somethin of my friend. what do u guys think
That is sort of lame and will probably piss of your friend in not a good way.i am me said:lol
i was thinkin of posting a personal ad on craigslist or somethin of my friend. what do u guys think
Hmm..not bad, but better yet. Put fly tape on the toilet seats. Maybe some poor bastard will get his ass stuck.Commando said:Saran wrap the toilet seats.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
We did this with tunafish when a guy was gone on vacation, but by the time he got back it dried up and didn't stink much anymore.g g g unit said:if you really want to get someone bad but a fish behind the radiator and wait a few days.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Oh man, that's just wrong.Phyzzle said: