“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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imagine two girls who are friends are walking together so do you think i can approach both of them at the same time to be my gf?

secondly what do you think of a girl using her friend(girl) to say something to her bf or someone she likes? is it because she is afraid of direct confrontation?

one thing i noticed is that it's easier to talk to a girl again next time when you know her name or remember her name otherwise you feel the same anxiety while trying to call her without knowing her name
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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As always, talk to the one who is less attractive and get her attention and to start flirting with you … the hotter one will become intrigued… and then the less hot one will let her into the conversation because that’s what the less hot girl is there to do, wing for the hot one at all times. Depending on how that situation plays out for you will determine if they’re down to play together or if you’re going to have to single one out for the time being.
 

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imagine two girls who are friends are walking together so do you think i can approach both of them at the same time to be my gf?

secondly what do you think of a girl using her friend(girl) to say something to her bf or someone she likes? is it because she is afraid of direct confrontation?

one thing i noticed is that it's easier to talk to a girl again next time when you know her name or remember her name otherwise you feel the same anxiety while trying to call her without knowing her name
1. Yes, just be careful to use a condom.

2. She secretly wants to invite the friend to the relationship.

3. No need to remember her name. You can always call them ***** (p ussy), it has worked very well for me.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Approaching a duo is tricky, introduce yourself to both but be direct and talk to the one you like immediately. Don't try to game the hot one by giving your attention to the ugly one, it doesn't work, old PUA stuff. If you do that and then switch to the hot one, the ugly one won't like it and think your an azzhole and the hot one will think it's not nice for her friend and will understand your game. Dont do that, be honest and direct.

It really depends on her friend, she either going to bash you when you're gone or help you. 50/50
Take a chance but don't expect anything. I prefer to approach solo girl.
i think using introducing myself to random girl is weird. what i try to do is start talking about something she has like a bag or something then within few minutes be like "you are cute and i like you so will you be my gf?"
 

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imagine two girls who are friends are walking together so do you think i can approach both of them at the same time to be my gf?
Approaching women who are walking is likely the crumbiest way of striking up conversation.
 

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If they are equally attractive, play it right down the middle. Flirt with both, they will be working for your attention. Figure out which one is into you the most.

Don't ever approach this with the mindset you are wanting a girlfriend. Let them figure out what you want them for. Better to be a challenge and mysterious.
 

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- "Zup´? Threesome?"

or

"Hey, quick question: R u single?" gauge their reaction, body language and go from there. If they are being a b1tch, politely ignore and next
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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i have approached few girls but i don't know why i still have the approach anxiety. it's like it is still there and stopping me many times
 

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i have approached few girls but i don't know why i still have the approach anxiety. it's like it is still there and stopping me many times
Keep going. It takes a lot of approaches to get rid of it. You'll pass it and it will be a great win. Try a 3-5 per day. How many approaches have you done?

In the end on this topic, where I am now, I have two problems:
  • Running out of energy after a number of approaches. My guts get eaten up. This is normal.
  • Not being fast enough/reacting timely. This is my main problem. With many approaches, when walking on a street or so, you have a couple of seconds at best to analyse whether to approach. This absolutely kills me, the missed opportunities.
You need to find your ways to deal with stress and anxiety. You can improvise your way forward, but also read books on it. Don't pathologize yourself though ;-)
 

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Keep going. It takes a lot of approaches to get rid of it. You'll pass it and it will be a great win. Try a 3-5 per day. How many approaches have you done?

In the end on this topic, where I am now, I have two problems:
  • Running out of energy after a number of approaches. My guts get eaten up. This is normal.
  • Not being fast enough/reacting timely. This is my main problem. With many approaches, when walking on a street or so, you have a couple of seconds at best to analyse whether to approach. This absolutely kills me, the missed opportunities.
You need to find your ways to deal with stress and anxiety. You can improvise your way forward, but also read books on it. Don't pathologize yourself though ;-)
not doing it on time frustrates me as well
 
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