can u go and say, 'hi, i'm ...' to a girl in a group, whether all girls or mixed? has anyone pulled off such thing successfully? i feel you can but you need to have the right and a very strong vibe for that.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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You can use what they use on Mystery's show:
"Hey, do you guys thing David Bowie is hot?"
"Hey, do you guys thing David Bowie is hot?"
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Why are things like this is DJ discussion when it's sad pickup artist confidence-lacking girls-are-the-prize stuff?
daygameguy
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If somebody asked that to my group, I'd be like "You gotta be kiddin me...is that the best you could come up with..lol"Relationship-Buddy said:You can use what they use on Mystery's show:
"Hey, do you guys thing David Bowie is hot?"
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
daygameguy
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I have used that many many times, it works like a charm.schttrj said:can u go and say, 'hi, i'm ...' to a girl in a group, whether all girls or mixed? has anyone pulled off such thing successfully? i feel you can but you need to have the right and a very strong vibe for that.
Just have a big as$ smile and respect everyone in the group.
You know, in pickup, its not what you say, but what you say NEXT!
So think 1 step ahead.
Anything can work when you say it with complete confidence. Believe that what you'll say will be great and it will.
A friend and I were walking towards the movie theater and we opened a group of 3 guys and 2 girls we didn't know with:
"And I thought he *points to my friend* looked bored today...but, look at you guys!"
It was clear that one of the girls was taken (holding hands) but we decided to approach because the other chick was hot. They laughed and "sweet couple" left us talking with the guys and the chick. My friend ad I believe in helping each other so since he was feeling the chick a lot more than me I kept the guys busy so he could get the girl's #.
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A friend and I were walking towards the movie theater and we opened a group of 3 guys and 2 girls we didn't know with:
"And I thought he *points to my friend* looked bored today...but, look at you guys!"
It was clear that one of the girls was taken (holding hands) but we decided to approach because the other chick was hot. They laughed and "sweet couple" left us talking with the guys and the chick. My friend ad I believe in helping each other so since he was feeling the chick a lot more than me I kept the guys busy so he could get the girl's #.
-VdoubleR
seems to be the real deal from the others. thanks man. so it works.daygameguy said:I have used that many many times, it works like a charm.
Just have a big as$ smile and respect everyone in the group.
You know, in pickup, its not what you say, but what you say NEXT!
So think 1 step ahead.
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You do something - she looks at you like "huh?" or "this guy's making a move.." or "what's this?" - you just go along with what you're doing, not even phased that what you did may be weird or whatever.
She'll go along with you
She'll go along with you