can u go and say, 'hi, i'm ...' to a girl in a group, whether all girls or mixed? has anyone pulled off such thing successfully? i feel you can but you need to have the right and a very strong vibe for that.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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You can use what they use on Mystery's show:
"Hey, do you guys thing David Bowie is hot?"
"Hey, do you guys thing David Bowie is hot?"
MisterMcGee
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Why are things like this is DJ discussion when it's sad pickup artist confidence-lacking girls-are-the-prize stuff?
daygameguy
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If somebody asked that to my group, I'd be like "You gotta be kiddin me...is that the best you could come up with..lol"Relationship-Buddy said:You can use what they use on Mystery's show:
"Hey, do you guys thing David Bowie is hot?"
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
daygameguy
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I have used that many many times, it works like a charm.schttrj said:can u go and say, 'hi, i'm ...' to a girl in a group, whether all girls or mixed? has anyone pulled off such thing successfully? i feel you can but you need to have the right and a very strong vibe for that.
Just have a big as$ smile and respect everyone in the group.
You know, in pickup, its not what you say, but what you say NEXT!
So think 1 step ahead.
Anything can work when you say it with complete confidence. Believe that what you'll say will be great and it will.
A friend and I were walking towards the movie theater and we opened a group of 3 guys and 2 girls we didn't know with:
"And I thought he *points to my friend* looked bored today...but, look at you guys!"
It was clear that one of the girls was taken (holding hands) but we decided to approach because the other chick was hot. They laughed and "sweet couple" left us talking with the guys and the chick. My friend ad I believe in helping each other so since he was feeling the chick a lot more than me I kept the guys busy so he could get the girl's #.
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A friend and I were walking towards the movie theater and we opened a group of 3 guys and 2 girls we didn't know with:
"And I thought he *points to my friend* looked bored today...but, look at you guys!"
It was clear that one of the girls was taken (holding hands) but we decided to approach because the other chick was hot. They laughed and "sweet couple" left us talking with the guys and the chick. My friend ad I believe in helping each other so since he was feeling the chick a lot more than me I kept the guys busy so he could get the girl's #.
-VdoubleR
seems to be the real deal from the others. thanks man. so it works.daygameguy said:I have used that many many times, it works like a charm.
Just have a big as$ smile and respect everyone in the group.
You know, in pickup, its not what you say, but what you say NEXT!
So think 1 step ahead.
MisterMcGee
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You do something - she looks at you like "huh?" or "this guy's making a move.." or "what's this?" - you just go along with what you're doing, not even phased that what you did may be weird or whatever.
She'll go along with you
She'll go along with you