can u go and say, 'hi, i'm ...' to a girl in a group, whether all girls or mixed? has anyone pulled off such thing successfully? i feel you can but you need to have the right and a very strong vibe for that.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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You can use what they use on Mystery's show:
"Hey, do you guys thing David Bowie is hot?"
"Hey, do you guys thing David Bowie is hot?"
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Why are things like this is DJ discussion when it's sad pickup artist confidence-lacking girls-are-the-prize stuff?
daygameguy
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If somebody asked that to my group, I'd be like "You gotta be kiddin me...is that the best you could come up with..lol"Relationship-Buddy said:You can use what they use on Mystery's show:
"Hey, do you guys thing David Bowie is hot?"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
daygameguy
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I have used that many many times, it works like a charm.schttrj said:can u go and say, 'hi, i'm ...' to a girl in a group, whether all girls or mixed? has anyone pulled off such thing successfully? i feel you can but you need to have the right and a very strong vibe for that.
Just have a big as$ smile and respect everyone in the group.
You know, in pickup, its not what you say, but what you say NEXT!
So think 1 step ahead.
Anything can work when you say it with complete confidence. Believe that what you'll say will be great and it will.
A friend and I were walking towards the movie theater and we opened a group of 3 guys and 2 girls we didn't know with:
"And I thought he *points to my friend* looked bored today...but, look at you guys!"
It was clear that one of the girls was taken (holding hands) but we decided to approach because the other chick was hot. They laughed and "sweet couple" left us talking with the guys and the chick. My friend ad I believe in helping each other so since he was feeling the chick a lot more than me I kept the guys busy so he could get the girl's #.
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A friend and I were walking towards the movie theater and we opened a group of 3 guys and 2 girls we didn't know with:
"And I thought he *points to my friend* looked bored today...but, look at you guys!"
It was clear that one of the girls was taken (holding hands) but we decided to approach because the other chick was hot. They laughed and "sweet couple" left us talking with the guys and the chick. My friend ad I believe in helping each other so since he was feeling the chick a lot more than me I kept the guys busy so he could get the girl's #.
-VdoubleR
seems to be the real deal from the others. thanks man. so it works.daygameguy said:I have used that many many times, it works like a charm.
Just have a big as$ smile and respect everyone in the group.
You know, in pickup, its not what you say, but what you say NEXT!
So think 1 step ahead.
MisterMcGee
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You do something - she looks at you like "huh?" or "this guy's making a move.." or "what's this?" - you just go along with what you're doing, not even phased that what you did may be weird or whatever.
She'll go along with you
She'll go along with you