can u go and say, 'hi, i'm ...' to a girl in a group, whether all girls or mixed? has anyone pulled off such thing successfully? i feel you can but you need to have the right and a very strong vibe for that.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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You can use what they use on Mystery's show:
"Hey, do you guys thing David Bowie is hot?"
"Hey, do you guys thing David Bowie is hot?"
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Why are things like this is DJ discussion when it's sad pickup artist confidence-lacking girls-are-the-prize stuff?
daygameguy
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If somebody asked that to my group, I'd be like "You gotta be kiddin me...is that the best you could come up with..lol"Relationship-Buddy said:You can use what they use on Mystery's show:
"Hey, do you guys thing David Bowie is hot?"
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
daygameguy
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I have used that many many times, it works like a charm.schttrj said:can u go and say, 'hi, i'm ...' to a girl in a group, whether all girls or mixed? has anyone pulled off such thing successfully? i feel you can but you need to have the right and a very strong vibe for that.
Just have a big as$ smile and respect everyone in the group.
You know, in pickup, its not what you say, but what you say NEXT!
So think 1 step ahead.
Anything can work when you say it with complete confidence. Believe that what you'll say will be great and it will.
A friend and I were walking towards the movie theater and we opened a group of 3 guys and 2 girls we didn't know with:
"And I thought he *points to my friend* looked bored today...but, look at you guys!"
It was clear that one of the girls was taken (holding hands) but we decided to approach because the other chick was hot. They laughed and "sweet couple" left us talking with the guys and the chick. My friend ad I believe in helping each other so since he was feeling the chick a lot more than me I kept the guys busy so he could get the girl's #.
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A friend and I were walking towards the movie theater and we opened a group of 3 guys and 2 girls we didn't know with:
"And I thought he *points to my friend* looked bored today...but, look at you guys!"
It was clear that one of the girls was taken (holding hands) but we decided to approach because the other chick was hot. They laughed and "sweet couple" left us talking with the guys and the chick. My friend ad I believe in helping each other so since he was feeling the chick a lot more than me I kept the guys busy so he could get the girl's #.
-VdoubleR
seems to be the real deal from the others. thanks man. so it works.daygameguy said:I have used that many many times, it works like a charm.
Just have a big as$ smile and respect everyone in the group.
You know, in pickup, its not what you say, but what you say NEXT!
So think 1 step ahead.
MisterMcGee
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You do something - she looks at you like "huh?" or "this guy's making a move.." or "what's this?" - you just go along with what you're doing, not even phased that what you did may be weird or whatever.
She'll go along with you
She'll go along with you