"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Approaching on the Slopes

Adam

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Hello SS!

I'm going skiing/boarding for a week in France this Friday. Being that the environment is so unique, where both you and her are doing something both active and massively enjoyable (not to mention the beautiful surroundings) I figured it has major scope for interesting situational lines/routines to get those French girls all hot and bothered..

I want to hear your ideas and thoughts on the topic - let's try and make this a fun and creative thread.





NOTE: I'm anticipating a fair few members pointing out how you don't need canned lines and routine to pull tail, a fact that I am fully aware of, but this trip will be about having fun: I can carve my James Bond mentality anytime at home.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You are a child. French girls like much older men. It is in their DNA. You will be competing against men twice your age with twice your money for girls your age and younger. It will be tough.
 

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BigJimbo said:
You are a child. French girls like much older men. It is in their DNA. You will be competing against men twice your age with twice your money for girls your age and younger. It will be tough.


Enlightened advice. You are clearly an authoritarian in both seduction and genetics: impressive seeing as you've been here for all of a month :rolleyes:


BustedKnucks: Yeh I anticipated as much. Being English, I've been around France and Spain a reasonable amount and it seemed to be the case.


Perhaps I didn't make myself clear enough, but let's make this thread more about general situationals and openers while on the piste.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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