"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Approaching on the Slopes

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Hello SS!

I'm going skiing/boarding for a week in France this Friday. Being that the environment is so unique, where both you and her are doing something both active and massively enjoyable (not to mention the beautiful surroundings) I figured it has major scope for interesting situational lines/routines to get those French girls all hot and bothered..

I want to hear your ideas and thoughts on the topic - let's try and make this a fun and creative thread.





NOTE: I'm anticipating a fair few members pointing out how you don't need canned lines and routine to pull tail, a fact that I am fully aware of, but this trip will be about having fun: I can carve my James Bond mentality anytime at home.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You are a child. French girls like much older men. It is in their DNA. You will be competing against men twice your age with twice your money for girls your age and younger. It will be tough.
 

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BigJimbo said:
You are a child. French girls like much older men. It is in their DNA. You will be competing against men twice your age with twice your money for girls your age and younger. It will be tough.


Enlightened advice. You are clearly an authoritarian in both seduction and genetics: impressive seeing as you've been here for all of a month :rolleyes:


BustedKnucks: Yeh I anticipated as much. Being English, I've been around France and Spain a reasonable amount and it seemed to be the case.


Perhaps I didn't make myself clear enough, but let's make this thread more about general situationals and openers while on the piste.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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