"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Approaching on the Slopes

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Hello SS!

I'm going skiing/boarding for a week in France this Friday. Being that the environment is so unique, where both you and her are doing something both active and massively enjoyable (not to mention the beautiful surroundings) I figured it has major scope for interesting situational lines/routines to get those French girls all hot and bothered..

I want to hear your ideas and thoughts on the topic - let's try and make this a fun and creative thread.





NOTE: I'm anticipating a fair few members pointing out how you don't need canned lines and routine to pull tail, a fact that I am fully aware of, but this trip will be about having fun: I can carve my James Bond mentality anytime at home.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You are a child. French girls like much older men. It is in their DNA. You will be competing against men twice your age with twice your money for girls your age and younger. It will be tough.
 

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BigJimbo said:
You are a child. French girls like much older men. It is in their DNA. You will be competing against men twice your age with twice your money for girls your age and younger. It will be tough.


Enlightened advice. You are clearly an authoritarian in both seduction and genetics: impressive seeing as you've been here for all of a month :rolleyes:


BustedKnucks: Yeh I anticipated as much. Being English, I've been around France and Spain a reasonable amount and it seemed to be the case.


Perhaps I didn't make myself clear enough, but let's make this thread more about general situationals and openers while on the piste.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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