"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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approaching friends of ex-prospects, yay or nay?

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JohnnyStrabler

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I have been posting about this girl that I have oneitis for/used to talk to and now I finally said, "enough!" and I want to meet new people. It just happened that this girl that I saw on campus is her friend. I dont know how long they know each other but I would say less than a year. Nevertheless they seem like they are getting along really well and kinda close.

How do I attack this? Should I find a new one?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Whoa, computer glitch. There go my 10 posts for today.
 
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I don't see a problem with pursuing her, depending on your history with the one-itis.

If it was a real LTR then I'd keep it moving. I personally would rather not have to deal with any ensuing drama.
 
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By a little skill you can make the other girl fall in love with you and create a misunderstanding between them, so that she becomes completely entranced by you. But it requires a lot of patience and you have to move in and LJBF the oneitis' friend first, then change the status by being a little physical and making sex seem like 'it just happened' magically. You think you are up for it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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kokane said:
By a little skill you can make the other girl fall in love with you and create a misunderstanding between them, so that she becomes completely entranced by you. But it requires a lot of patience and you have to move in and LJBF the oneitis' friend first, then change the status by being a little physical and making sex seem like 'it just happened' magically. You think you are up for it?
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yeah I dont think I wanna go through all the work and drama for one chick
 
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