"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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approaching friends of ex-prospects, yay or nay?

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I have been posting about this girl that I have oneitis for/used to talk to and now I finally said, "enough!" and I want to meet new people. It just happened that this girl that I saw on campus is her friend. I dont know how long they know each other but I would say less than a year. Nevertheless they seem like they are getting along really well and kinda close.

How do I attack this? Should I find a new one?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Whoa, computer glitch. There go my 10 posts for today.
 
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I don't see a problem with pursuing her, depending on your history with the one-itis.

If it was a real LTR then I'd keep it moving. I personally would rather not have to deal with any ensuing drama.
 
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By a little skill you can make the other girl fall in love with you and create a misunderstanding between them, so that she becomes completely entranced by you. But it requires a lot of patience and you have to move in and LJBF the oneitis' friend first, then change the status by being a little physical and making sex seem like 'it just happened' magically. You think you are up for it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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kokane said:
By a little skill you can make the other girl fall in love with you and create a misunderstanding between them, so that she becomes completely entranced by you. But it requires a lot of patience and you have to move in and LJBF the oneitis' friend first, then change the status by being a little physical and making sex seem like 'it just happened' magically. You think you are up for it?
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yeah I dont think I wanna go through all the work and drama for one chick
 
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