"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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approaching friends of ex-prospects, yay or nay?

JohnnyStrabler

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I have been posting about this girl that I have oneitis for/used to talk to and now I finally said, "enough!" and I want to meet new people. It just happened that this girl that I saw on campus is her friend. I dont know how long they know each other but I would say less than a year. Nevertheless they seem like they are getting along really well and kinda close.

How do I attack this? Should I find a new one?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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horaholic

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Whoa, computer glitch. There go my 10 posts for today.
 

Real Talk

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I don't see a problem with pursuing her, depending on your history with the one-itis.

If it was a real LTR then I'd keep it moving. I personally would rather not have to deal with any ensuing drama.
 

kokane

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By a little skill you can make the other girl fall in love with you and create a misunderstanding between them, so that she becomes completely entranced by you. But it requires a lot of patience and you have to move in and LJBF the oneitis' friend first, then change the status by being a little physical and making sex seem like 'it just happened' magically. You think you are up for it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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JohnnyStrabler

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kokane said:
By a little skill you can make the other girl fall in love with you and create a misunderstanding between them, so that she becomes completely entranced by you. But it requires a lot of patience and you have to move in and LJBF the oneitis' friend first, then change the status by being a little physical and making sex seem like 'it just happened' magically. You think you are up for it?
yeah I dont think I wanna go through all the work and drama for one chick
 
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