"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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approaching friends of ex-prospects, yay or nay?

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I have been posting about this girl that I have oneitis for/used to talk to and now I finally said, "enough!" and I want to meet new people. It just happened that this girl that I saw on campus is her friend. I dont know how long they know each other but I would say less than a year. Nevertheless they seem like they are getting along really well and kinda close.

How do I attack this? Should I find a new one?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Whoa, computer glitch. There go my 10 posts for today.
 
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I don't see a problem with pursuing her, depending on your history with the one-itis.

If it was a real LTR then I'd keep it moving. I personally would rather not have to deal with any ensuing drama.
 
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By a little skill you can make the other girl fall in love with you and create a misunderstanding between them, so that she becomes completely entranced by you. But it requires a lot of patience and you have to move in and LJBF the oneitis' friend first, then change the status by being a little physical and making sex seem like 'it just happened' magically. You think you are up for it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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kokane said:
By a little skill you can make the other girl fall in love with you and create a misunderstanding between them, so that she becomes completely entranced by you. But it requires a lot of patience and you have to move in and LJBF the oneitis' friend first, then change the status by being a little physical and making sex seem like 'it just happened' magically. You think you are up for it?
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yeah I dont think I wanna go through all the work and drama for one chick
 
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