"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Approaching chicks at their job

xsonik

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Has anyone tried approaching any women at their job? Any stories? You see, there was this cute HB8 at this store Costco (It's a wholesale club like BJs and Sams Club), but she was working the register. I wouldn't want to be an ass and hold up the line just so I can practice my DJ on her. Not to mention I can't think of any conversation starters to a girl that is working.

P.S. Is it just me, or are there a million hot girls at grocery stores?,whether they work there or are shopping. Maybe it was just a coincidence though.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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c-do

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a woman's point of view

She wears a name tag, right? Use her name when you go through the line - it will show her that she's not just someone at the register, another nameless face. Women love to be noticed. Introduce yourself in return. Be very polite and maybe mention that you've seen her there before and ask her if she works regularly. Get into line when there isn't anyone else or when you've got a lot of stuff and there's a reason to hold the line up. Then when your ready to head off, let her know that you hope to see her again. It's kind of an odd situation when you're going through a line but you should at least get a hint as to whether she's interested. Hope this helps.

cece
 

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c-do, I realise your a chicky but cashier girls or working chicks in general are supposed to be friendly to customers, so it's hard to tell if they are interested. Also, I think most chicks would find it weird if some dude just straight up asked them out when they're working. Just my 2 cents. I'm an aussie though, things function differently here, people don't pick up honeyz that are working.
 

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I got a girls number when she was working at a department store before (also a cashier). We went were "talking" for about a month (if thats what you want to call it).

I hadn't really had the intention of getting her number, but as I was waiting she asked me something about this shirt I had on, next thing I knew the conversation was flowing. Before I left I got her number.

In that situation we hit it off right away, so I say to try and strike up a conversation and see how it goes. If it goes smoothly go for the number close.
 

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I got a chics # at a mobile gas station, i'd see her every thursday so I had a little rapport going after a couple weeks then I asked her for her #
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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que_est_suave

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once i was tired and and not thinking. i said to the checkout girl 'Trainee- that's and interesting name... where u from' - she laughed b4 i realised how dumb that was... haha
 
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