"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Approaching chicks at their job

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Has anyone tried approaching any women at their job? Any stories? You see, there was this cute HB8 at this store Costco (It's a wholesale club like BJs and Sams Club), but she was working the register. I wouldn't want to be an ass and hold up the line just so I can practice my DJ on her. Not to mention I can't think of any conversation starters to a girl that is working.

P.S. Is it just me, or are there a million hot girls at grocery stores?,whether they work there or are shopping. Maybe it was just a coincidence though.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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a woman's point of view

She wears a name tag, right? Use her name when you go through the line - it will show her that she's not just someone at the register, another nameless face. Women love to be noticed. Introduce yourself in return. Be very polite and maybe mention that you've seen her there before and ask her if she works regularly. Get into line when there isn't anyone else or when you've got a lot of stuff and there's a reason to hold the line up. Then when your ready to head off, let her know that you hope to see her again. It's kind of an odd situation when you're going through a line but you should at least get a hint as to whether she's interested. Hope this helps.

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c-do, I realise your a chicky but cashier girls or working chicks in general are supposed to be friendly to customers, so it's hard to tell if they are interested. Also, I think most chicks would find it weird if some dude just straight up asked them out when they're working. Just my 2 cents. I'm an aussie though, things function differently here, people don't pick up honeyz that are working.
 
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I got a girls number when she was working at a department store before (also a cashier). We went were "talking" for about a month (if thats what you want to call it).

I hadn't really had the intention of getting her number, but as I was waiting she asked me something about this shirt I had on, next thing I knew the conversation was flowing. Before I left I got her number.

In that situation we hit it off right away, so I say to try and strike up a conversation and see how it goes. If it goes smoothly go for the number close.
 
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I got a chics # at a mobile gas station, i'd see her every thursday so I had a little rapport going after a couple weeks then I asked her for her #
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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once i was tired and and not thinking. i said to the checkout girl 'Trainee- that's and interesting name... where u from' - she laughed b4 i realised how dumb that was... haha
 
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