“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Approaching chicks at their job

xsonik

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Has anyone tried approaching any women at their job? Any stories? You see, there was this cute HB8 at this store Costco (It's a wholesale club like BJs and Sams Club), but she was working the register. I wouldn't want to be an ass and hold up the line just so I can practice my DJ on her. Not to mention I can't think of any conversation starters to a girl that is working.

P.S. Is it just me, or are there a million hot girls at grocery stores?,whether they work there or are shopping. Maybe it was just a coincidence though.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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a woman's point of view

She wears a name tag, right? Use her name when you go through the line - it will show her that she's not just someone at the register, another nameless face. Women love to be noticed. Introduce yourself in return. Be very polite and maybe mention that you've seen her there before and ask her if she works regularly. Get into line when there isn't anyone else or when you've got a lot of stuff and there's a reason to hold the line up. Then when your ready to head off, let her know that you hope to see her again. It's kind of an odd situation when you're going through a line but you should at least get a hint as to whether she's interested. Hope this helps.

cece
 

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c-do, I realise your a chicky but cashier girls or working chicks in general are supposed to be friendly to customers, so it's hard to tell if they are interested. Also, I think most chicks would find it weird if some dude just straight up asked them out when they're working. Just my 2 cents. I'm an aussie though, things function differently here, people don't pick up honeyz that are working.
 

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I got a girls number when she was working at a department store before (also a cashier). We went were "talking" for about a month (if thats what you want to call it).

I hadn't really had the intention of getting her number, but as I was waiting she asked me something about this shirt I had on, next thing I knew the conversation was flowing. Before I left I got her number.

In that situation we hit it off right away, so I say to try and strike up a conversation and see how it goes. If it goes smoothly go for the number close.
 

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I got a chics # at a mobile gas station, i'd see her every thursday so I had a little rapport going after a couple weeks then I asked her for her #
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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once i was tired and and not thinking. i said to the checkout girl 'Trainee- that's and interesting name... where u from' - she laughed b4 i realised how dumb that was... haha
 
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