"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Approaches/Icebreakers for in class?

tyguy

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Anyone have any good icebreakers or methods to approach girls during class--i.e., if you're sitting next to them but don't know them.

Thanks :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"OMG this teacher's sooo boring! oh btw I'm tyguy"
"you dropped this. oh its not yours? well then here's my first meeting gift to you :p I'm tyguy"
"hey how's it going? im tyguy"

its pretty easy :p
 

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Yeah, I'm not really shy or anything; I don't have problems talking to girls. But I'm looking for a way to start a flirting conversation right off the bat, rather than a regular, fakey, friends-only conversation.

I had it down pat last year, but I spent most of my summer smoking pot with a bunch of my guy friends, and only hooking up with party chicks that took no work whatsoever. I get back to school this year and I seem to have lost my intuition about what to say.
 

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start with a neg or a funny comment? thats the closest I think you'd get to start flirting right away ...
 

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yeah he's right negs and ****y funny are the best ways to start it off in class cause you don't want her thinking your intrested in her espeically during class ya know
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AlexTheGreat said:
"OMG this teacher's sooo boring! oh btw I'm tyguy"
"you dropped this. oh its not yours? well then here's my first meeting gift to you :p I'm tyguy"
"hey how's it going? im tyguy"

its pretty easy :p


I liek that one :yes:
 

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I talked to her a bit today, just introduced my self with a 101.
1- Did you do something to your hair?
Her- Yeah I did, it's straightened today.
0- Oh. I like it better natural.
1- But it still looks nice.

What I think I'm really asking are what are good conversations to have that are flirtatious in nature.
 

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"i'd like to thank you for stealing the desk i wanted."

haha i like that one would be good to do while the teacher is talking and you pull out a piece of paper and write it down and pass it to her when your done
 

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hahah i just thought of this one:

the girl's already seated somewhere, and there's no one next to her. you go by, smile like she had just done you a great favor, and say "omg thank you so much for saving me a seat! i knew I could count on you!" She's probably gonna either smile or be like "huh?" in which case you ignore her response and just talk to her like she's an old friend. and TADA icebreaker :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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VSTbeserk said:
"I'd like to thank you for stealing the desk I wanted"

that one would be good to do while the teacher is talking and you pull out a piece of paper and write it down and pass it to her when your done
:up:
 

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it's a negative compliment. basically, you compliment her on something, but something that she's kindof ashamed of. so you make fun of her weaker parts :p hence why you mustn't do it too often, or else she'll just be bummed out.
 

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AlexTheGreat said:
it's a negative compliment. basically, you compliment her on something, but something that she's kindof ashamed of. so you make fun of her weaker parts :p hence why you mustn't do it too often, or else she'll just be bummed out.
thanks, had to beg to get that answer, I mess up my C+F all the time and kinda go into just dissing her, which rarely become useful negs, but yah Im working on my C+F :p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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