"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Approaches/Icebreakers for in class?

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Anyone have any good icebreakers or methods to approach girls during class--i.e., if you're sitting next to them but don't know them.

Thanks :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"OMG this teacher's sooo boring! oh btw I'm tyguy"
"you dropped this. oh its not yours? well then here's my first meeting gift to you :p I'm tyguy"
"hey how's it going? im tyguy"

its pretty easy :p
 

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Yeah, I'm not really shy or anything; I don't have problems talking to girls. But I'm looking for a way to start a flirting conversation right off the bat, rather than a regular, fakey, friends-only conversation.

I had it down pat last year, but I spent most of my summer smoking pot with a bunch of my guy friends, and only hooking up with party chicks that took no work whatsoever. I get back to school this year and I seem to have lost my intuition about what to say.
 

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start with a neg or a funny comment? thats the closest I think you'd get to start flirting right away ...
 

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yeah he's right negs and ****y funny are the best ways to start it off in class cause you don't want her thinking your intrested in her espeically during class ya know
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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AlexTheGreat said:
"OMG this teacher's sooo boring! oh btw I'm tyguy"
"you dropped this. oh its not yours? well then here's my first meeting gift to you :p I'm tyguy"
"hey how's it going? im tyguy"

its pretty easy :p


I liek that one :yes:
 

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I talked to her a bit today, just introduced my self with a 101.
1- Did you do something to your hair?
Her- Yeah I did, it's straightened today.
0- Oh. I like it better natural.
1- But it still looks nice.

What I think I'm really asking are what are good conversations to have that are flirtatious in nature.
 

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"i'd like to thank you for stealing the desk i wanted."

haha i like that one would be good to do while the teacher is talking and you pull out a piece of paper and write it down and pass it to her when your done
 

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hahah i just thought of this one:

the girl's already seated somewhere, and there's no one next to her. you go by, smile like she had just done you a great favor, and say "omg thank you so much for saving me a seat! i knew I could count on you!" She's probably gonna either smile or be like "huh?" in which case you ignore her response and just talk to her like she's an old friend. and TADA icebreaker :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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VSTbeserk said:
"I'd like to thank you for stealing the desk I wanted"

that one would be good to do while the teacher is talking and you pull out a piece of paper and write it down and pass it to her when your done
:up:
 

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it's a negative compliment. basically, you compliment her on something, but something that she's kindof ashamed of. so you make fun of her weaker parts :p hence why you mustn't do it too often, or else she'll just be bummed out.
 

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AlexTheGreat said:
it's a negative compliment. basically, you compliment her on something, but something that she's kindof ashamed of. so you make fun of her weaker parts :p hence why you mustn't do it too often, or else she'll just be bummed out.
thanks, had to beg to get that answer, I mess up my C+F all the time and kinda go into just dissing her, which rarely become useful negs, but yah Im working on my C+F :p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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