"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Approaches/Icebreakers for in class?

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Anyone have any good icebreakers or methods to approach girls during class--i.e., if you're sitting next to them but don't know them.

Thanks :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"OMG this teacher's sooo boring! oh btw I'm tyguy"
"you dropped this. oh its not yours? well then here's my first meeting gift to you :p I'm tyguy"
"hey how's it going? im tyguy"

its pretty easy :p
 

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Yeah, I'm not really shy or anything; I don't have problems talking to girls. But I'm looking for a way to start a flirting conversation right off the bat, rather than a regular, fakey, friends-only conversation.

I had it down pat last year, but I spent most of my summer smoking pot with a bunch of my guy friends, and only hooking up with party chicks that took no work whatsoever. I get back to school this year and I seem to have lost my intuition about what to say.
 

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start with a neg or a funny comment? thats the closest I think you'd get to start flirting right away ...
 

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yeah he's right negs and ****y funny are the best ways to start it off in class cause you don't want her thinking your intrested in her espeically during class ya know
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AlexTheGreat said:
"OMG this teacher's sooo boring! oh btw I'm tyguy"
"you dropped this. oh its not yours? well then here's my first meeting gift to you :p I'm tyguy"
"hey how's it going? im tyguy"

its pretty easy :p


I liek that one :yes:
 

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I talked to her a bit today, just introduced my self with a 101.
1- Did you do something to your hair?
Her- Yeah I did, it's straightened today.
0- Oh. I like it better natural.
1- But it still looks nice.

What I think I'm really asking are what are good conversations to have that are flirtatious in nature.
 

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"i'd like to thank you for stealing the desk i wanted."

haha i like that one would be good to do while the teacher is talking and you pull out a piece of paper and write it down and pass it to her when your done
 

AlexTheGreat

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hahah i just thought of this one:

the girl's already seated somewhere, and there's no one next to her. you go by, smile like she had just done you a great favor, and say "omg thank you so much for saving me a seat! i knew I could count on you!" She's probably gonna either smile or be like "huh?" in which case you ignore her response and just talk to her like she's an old friend. and TADA icebreaker :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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VSTbeserk said:
"I'd like to thank you for stealing the desk I wanted"

that one would be good to do while the teacher is talking and you pull out a piece of paper and write it down and pass it to her when your done
:up:
 

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it's a negative compliment. basically, you compliment her on something, but something that she's kindof ashamed of. so you make fun of her weaker parts :p hence why you mustn't do it too often, or else she'll just be bummed out.
 

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AlexTheGreat said:
it's a negative compliment. basically, you compliment her on something, but something that she's kindof ashamed of. so you make fun of her weaker parts :p hence why you mustn't do it too often, or else she'll just be bummed out.
thanks, had to beg to get that answer, I mess up my C+F all the time and kinda go into just dissing her, which rarely become useful negs, but yah Im working on my C+F :p
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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