"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Approach competition - who can do the most approaches?

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Luke Skywalker

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I''ll be withdrawing from here until August 1st, any appraoches will be writen on a diary and posted here after that date. Meanwhile, I'm getting my photos done and revamping my online game and will update the other thread later.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just one lame approach today. I'm gonna do 5 approaches tomorrow, and I'm definitely going to change that "excuse me, hi, may I" thing! I'm making a commitment here. This'll help me to be good tomorrow.
 
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Ok I didn't do 5, But instead I did something I normally too scared to do. I approached a 2-set of HB8s. Till now I had restricted myself to single HBs, and this was really a burden. Nice girls usually aren't alone on the street.
OK here's how it went. I go up to them and
Me:"Hey ladies"
they give me a wtf look.
Me: "Hey Hey I'm not a monster! calm down. I guess I like to get to know you better."
and one of them replies with a playful tone :"Oh we don't want to get to know you better!"
I said thats ok and walked away.
I don't know if I should have persisted and tried to play a bit more. any advices?
 
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Someone Much cooler said:
I met a 8 on the bus, 3 10's on the train and 1 today @ my job. thats it for today
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I'm so glad you're posting too. Otherwise this thread was going to turn into my personal approach journal, considering Luke is withdrawing for a while. But please make it a bit more detailed. I mean come on! 5 approaches and just a 1 sentence report?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Luke All I Have To Say Is Props For Tryin But Sayin Hi Is Not Really An Approach But At Least U Tryin.

Lyamb Good Job On Tryin Also. I'll Get On Dis Approach Competition Also Den. I Made Anotha Topic Which Is My Approach/phone Numbers Closed Competition Also.

2weeks Ago I Went To Da Mall N Holla At 2 Girls. 1 Of Dem Was Wit Her 2friends N I Was In My Boy Car N Talked To Her But She Left Afta I Was Sayin Let Me Talk To U Real Quick.

Da Otha One Was When We Went To Green Acres Mall Inside N I Talked To One Of Da Workers Outside Of Her Store. While I Was Talkin I Asked Her A Stupid ?, I Said Do U Work Here When It Was Obvious Dat She Did Lmao So I Left.

Dis Week Im Gonna Go Hard In Da Approaches Hopefully Get 100 Approaches B4 July Is Ova Wit Since I Work N Stuff Na Mean. Holla Early
 
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