"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Approach competition - who can do the most approaches?

Joined
May 23, 2006
Messages
2,434
Reaction score
11
I''ll be withdrawing from here until August 1st, any appraoches will be writen on a diary and posted here after that date. Meanwhile, I'm getting my photos done and revamping my online game and will update the other thread later.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

lyamdb

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 24, 2007
Messages
73
Reaction score
1
Just one lame approach today. I'm gonna do 5 approaches tomorrow, and I'm definitely going to change that "excuse me, hi, may I" thing! I'm making a commitment here. This'll help me to be good tomorrow.
 

lyamdb

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 24, 2007
Messages
73
Reaction score
1
Ok I didn't do 5, But instead I did something I normally too scared to do. I approached a 2-set of HB8s. Till now I had restricted myself to single HBs, and this was really a burden. Nice girls usually aren't alone on the street.
OK here's how it went. I go up to them and
Me:"Hey ladies"
they give me a wtf look.
Me: "Hey Hey I'm not a monster! calm down. I guess I like to get to know you better."
and one of them replies with a playful tone :"Oh we don't want to get to know you better!"
I said thats ok and walked away.
I don't know if I should have persisted and tried to play a bit more. any advices?
 

lyamdb

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 24, 2007
Messages
73
Reaction score
1
Someone Much cooler said:
I met a 8 on the bus, 3 10's on the train and 1 today @ my job. thats it for today
I'm so glad you're posting too. Otherwise this thread was going to turn into my personal approach journal, considering Luke is withdrawing for a while. But please make it a bit more detailed. I mean come on! 5 approaches and just a 1 sentence report?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

YoungSir4sho

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 19, 2007
Messages
314
Reaction score
4
Location
NYC
Luke All I Have To Say Is Props For Tryin But Sayin Hi Is Not Really An Approach But At Least U Tryin.

Lyamb Good Job On Tryin Also. I'll Get On Dis Approach Competition Also Den. I Made Anotha Topic Which Is My Approach/phone Numbers Closed Competition Also.

2weeks Ago I Went To Da Mall N Holla At 2 Girls. 1 Of Dem Was Wit Her 2friends N I Was In My Boy Car N Talked To Her But She Left Afta I Was Sayin Let Me Talk To U Real Quick.

Da Otha One Was When We Went To Green Acres Mall Inside N I Talked To One Of Da Workers Outside Of Her Store. While I Was Talkin I Asked Her A Stupid ?, I Said Do U Work Here When It Was Obvious Dat She Did Lmao So I Left.

Dis Week Im Gonna Go Hard In Da Approaches Hopefully Get 100 Approaches B4 July Is Ova Wit Since I Work N Stuff Na Mean. Holla Early
 
Top