"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Approach competition - who can do the most approaches?

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I''ll be withdrawing from here until August 1st, any appraoches will be writen on a diary and posted here after that date. Meanwhile, I'm getting my photos done and revamping my online game and will update the other thread later.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just one lame approach today. I'm gonna do 5 approaches tomorrow, and I'm definitely going to change that "excuse me, hi, may I" thing! I'm making a commitment here. This'll help me to be good tomorrow.
 

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Ok I didn't do 5, But instead I did something I normally too scared to do. I approached a 2-set of HB8s. Till now I had restricted myself to single HBs, and this was really a burden. Nice girls usually aren't alone on the street.
OK here's how it went. I go up to them and
Me:"Hey ladies"
they give me a wtf look.
Me: "Hey Hey I'm not a monster! calm down. I guess I like to get to know you better."
and one of them replies with a playful tone :"Oh we don't want to get to know you better!"
I said thats ok and walked away.
I don't know if I should have persisted and tried to play a bit more. any advices?
 

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Someone Much cooler said:
I met a 8 on the bus, 3 10's on the train and 1 today @ my job. thats it for today
I'm so glad you're posting too. Otherwise this thread was going to turn into my personal approach journal, considering Luke is withdrawing for a while. But please make it a bit more detailed. I mean come on! 5 approaches and just a 1 sentence report?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Luke All I Have To Say Is Props For Tryin But Sayin Hi Is Not Really An Approach But At Least U Tryin.

Lyamb Good Job On Tryin Also. I'll Get On Dis Approach Competition Also Den. I Made Anotha Topic Which Is My Approach/phone Numbers Closed Competition Also.

2weeks Ago I Went To Da Mall N Holla At 2 Girls. 1 Of Dem Was Wit Her 2friends N I Was In My Boy Car N Talked To Her But She Left Afta I Was Sayin Let Me Talk To U Real Quick.

Da Otha One Was When We Went To Green Acres Mall Inside N I Talked To One Of Da Workers Outside Of Her Store. While I Was Talkin I Asked Her A Stupid ?, I Said Do U Work Here When It Was Obvious Dat She Did Lmao So I Left.

Dis Week Im Gonna Go Hard In Da Approaches Hopefully Get 100 Approaches B4 July Is Ova Wit Since I Work N Stuff Na Mean. Holla Early
 
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