"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Approach anxiety.

collalife

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DO you have approach anxiety... lol.. this will make it a thing of the past. www.approachanxiety.com
the simplified frame is just simply approach one women a day forever. after a while it becomes a habit and meeting women becomes just a regular routine.
after a while you develop a certain style. the original meeting (for beginners) hi i was just walking by(insert place) or ask a question about where they go or so on and then intro, "my name is". Ive done it for about 8 days so far, my approach anxiety is hardly there i just find myself talking to women. i have not number closed anyone but ive built some great kino and attraction. I suggest you newbies put on your game face(a smile) and go approach.

call me or pm me anytime ill sarge any weekend or event. in the bay area.
-collalife
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DrD77

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yea if i could just get past that first approach, it will be a pice of cake from there
 

Tear Gas

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i had AA when i first started out (like most guys) but i used the 3 second rule, which i think helps a lot, and basically approached any girl i wanted and understood that there's nothing to fear about approaching women.
 

wolf116

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I still have AA after 3 years of trying to overcome it.

Instead of overcoming it, I just focused on attracting the girls to me.

Not the most efficient thing to do but I get results.

My new years resolution for 2008, was to approach one girl. That's just sad.


It stems from a totally fvcked up, isolated childhood most people could not even fathom.
 
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