"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Approach anxiety.

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collalife

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DO you have approach anxiety... lol.. this will make it a thing of the past. www.approachanxiety.com
the simplified frame is just simply approach one women a day forever. after a while it becomes a habit and meeting women becomes just a regular routine.
after a while you develop a certain style. the original meeting (for beginners) hi i was just walking by(insert place) or ask a question about where they go or so on and then intro, "my name is". Ive done it for about 8 days so far, my approach anxiety is hardly there i just find myself talking to women. i have not number closed anyone but ive built some great kino and attraction. I suggest you newbies put on your game face(a smile) and go approach.

call me or pm me anytime ill sarge any weekend or event. in the bay area.
-collalife
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DrD77

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yea if i could just get past that first approach, it will be a pice of cake from there
 
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i had AA when i first started out (like most guys) but i used the 3 second rule, which i think helps a lot, and basically approached any girl i wanted and understood that there's nothing to fear about approaching women.
 
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I still have AA after 3 years of trying to overcome it.

Instead of overcoming it, I just focused on attracting the girls to me.

Not the most efficient thing to do but I get results.

My new years resolution for 2008, was to approach one girl. That's just sad.


It stems from a totally fvcked up, isolated childhood most people could not even fathom.
 
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