"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Approach anxiety.

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collalife

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DO you have approach anxiety... lol.. this will make it a thing of the past. www.approachanxiety.com
the simplified frame is just simply approach one women a day forever. after a while it becomes a habit and meeting women becomes just a regular routine.
after a while you develop a certain style. the original meeting (for beginners) hi i was just walking by(insert place) or ask a question about where they go or so on and then intro, "my name is". Ive done it for about 8 days so far, my approach anxiety is hardly there i just find myself talking to women. i have not number closed anyone but ive built some great kino and attraction. I suggest you newbies put on your game face(a smile) and go approach.

call me or pm me anytime ill sarge any weekend or event. in the bay area.
-collalife
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DrD77

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yea if i could just get past that first approach, it will be a pice of cake from there
 
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Tear Gas

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i had AA when i first started out (like most guys) but i used the 3 second rule, which i think helps a lot, and basically approached any girl i wanted and understood that there's nothing to fear about approaching women.
 
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I still have AA after 3 years of trying to overcome it.

Instead of overcoming it, I just focused on attracting the girls to me.

Not the most efficient thing to do but I get results.

My new years resolution for 2008, was to approach one girl. That's just sad.


It stems from a totally fvcked up, isolated childhood most people could not even fathom.
 
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