"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Approach anxiety.

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collalife

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DO you have approach anxiety... lol.. this will make it a thing of the past. www.approachanxiety.com
the simplified frame is just simply approach one women a day forever. after a while it becomes a habit and meeting women becomes just a regular routine.
after a while you develop a certain style. the original meeting (for beginners) hi i was just walking by(insert place) or ask a question about where they go or so on and then intro, "my name is". Ive done it for about 8 days so far, my approach anxiety is hardly there i just find myself talking to women. i have not number closed anyone but ive built some great kino and attraction. I suggest you newbies put on your game face(a smile) and go approach.

call me or pm me anytime ill sarge any weekend or event. in the bay area.
-collalife
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yea if i could just get past that first approach, it will be a pice of cake from there
 
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i had AA when i first started out (like most guys) but i used the 3 second rule, which i think helps a lot, and basically approached any girl i wanted and understood that there's nothing to fear about approaching women.
 
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I still have AA after 3 years of trying to overcome it.

Instead of overcoming it, I just focused on attracting the girls to me.

Not the most efficient thing to do but I get results.

My new years resolution for 2008, was to approach one girl. That's just sad.


It stems from a totally fvcked up, isolated childhood most people could not even fathom.
 
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