"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Apparent Incels going around NYC randomly punching women in the face as they walk

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I understand. I actually don’t want women voting. I think there should be a family vote: men voting on behalf of their families.
 

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My cousin works in NYC and my family is concerned about this and the dramatic increase in subway violence on women.


My cousin works in NYC and has been called “white b-tch,” had her shoes urinated on, and been shoved.

Men are not permitted to defend women these days, let alone female family members, so I’m not sure how this can be corrected.

This couple’s man had to endure verbal abuse unto his wife with baby present.




Likely most men have been incel at some point or another and don’t hate women. But yes, it is likely whoever is punching women in their faces is an incel.

Several posters on here appear to be quite vindictive towards women and take pleasure in their suffering. “Haha, look at this post-wall b-tch crying on TikTok.”

If I recall correctly, last year, in NYC, there was a man pushing the stroller of his kid (he’s not an incel) and hip checking women who said the kid was cute.
In New York you can still pull your sleeves up and defend yourself. I almost had five or six Colombians try and lock my car in a garage at night bc they couldn’t speak and fvcked the receipt up. Top three most adrenaline producing moments I’ve been in. There was a camera so just dialed 911 and started telling the operator I was held against my will and read address out loud and showed the guys the speaker phone. They opened it. I probably would have driven through the gate.
 

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Most incels are not perpetrating violence. Only a small percentage of incels actually do mass violence.
The same is true of those of us born into families who, at some point in the past, adopted Islam. Regularly pointing this out for the past several decades has been remarkably effective, in terms of influencing the perceptions of The American public. So much so, that Bill Maher, Fox Non -News, and s-itloads of other minimally talented D-list celebrities have been forced to instead make Rastafarians the target of their slander and fearmongering, the likes of which used to be hurled only at Jews and(to a lesser extent) Italians

Us simply saying "Most Incels aren't violent sociopaths" will no doubt be similarly successful
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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True Forced Loneliness prophet "Roller" Steve Hoca once ran for mayor of his small town.
I actually liked Steve Hoca. With all his feelings about being shafted by the Sexual Revolution, I don’t think he was cut out for fatherhood and marriage. What I especially liked about him was his concern for men as a whole and society.
 

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I don't know if the criminal in this story is an incel (kind of doubt it, as women often find scumbags attractive), but I bet these types of assaults would be a lot less common is there was real punishment for crime. Like, punch someone in the head for no reason and get your hand cut off. Do that one more time and you'd be INNOFAP (involuntary no-fap) for the rest of your life.

The irony, of course, is that weak on crime, progressive, "anti racist" POS'es who are responsible for the current state of affairs are the ones getting victimized the most by their own agenda. The law of unintended consequences on full display.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Most of these reports are just hysterical women somehow coherently explaining that some dude ran up and punched them.

IDK about you guys, but if I got sucker punched, my first reaction would not be to make a tiktok video about it. This is probably 90% #BelieveAllWomen #MeToo nonsense.
We can't trust these h0es.
Yeah but this seems to be exclusively a NYC thing at this particular point.
 

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Contrary to popular belief, most incels are single black men now.
How is that possible? Black men are usually able to get laid, especially with Black women.

When I think about incels, I typically see men with East Asian, South Asian, and White European ancestry as incels in the United States. Black and Hispanic men seem to be able to get laid.

There was a Hispanic incel with neo-Nazi beliefs who perpetrated a mass shooting in May 2023.

 

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How is that possible? Black men are usually able to get laid, especially with Black women.

When I think about incels, I typically see men with East Asian, South Asian, and White European ancestry as incels in the United States. Black and Hispanic men seem to be able to get laid.

There was a Hispanic incel with neo-Nazi beliefs who perpetrated a mass shooting in May 2023.

I don't think those racial stereotypes are necessarily accurate. It's just like stereotypes about gays. In movies and TV shows, gays are almost always portrayed as white, while in reality, homosexuality is just as common (if not more so) among blacks and asians. Same thing with incels.
 
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