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Apparent Incels going around NYC randomly punching women in the face as they walk

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This is crazy...WTF has happened to any sort of respect for other human beings?

These dudes should be thrown in a jail cell for a night and let the other inmates know they like randomly punching women...pretty sure they would be begging to get out within a few minutes as they got beat senseless.

It doesn't say they are incels, but what other type of person would have enough hatred for women to just do something like that?

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'll take the bait, since you put it out there OP. Who's known for doing the Knockout Game? That's what this is, essentially. Everyone knows the media will highlight the female victims cases to maximize outrage and clicks. Weird take imo.

As you can see in the link (and thumbnail) below, all of the victims appear to be white


Stick to Europe, AA.
 
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This is crazy...WTF has happened to any sort of respect for other human beings?

These dudes should be thrown in a jail cell for a night and let the other inmates know they like randomly punching women...pretty sure they would be begging to get out within a few minutes as they got beat senseless.

It doesn't say they are incels, but what other type of person would have enough hatred for women to just do something like that?

Not Incels.
 

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I'll take the bait, since you put it out there OP. Who's known for doing the Knockout Game? That's what this is, essentially. Everyone knows the media will highlight the female victims cases to maximize outrage and clicks. Weird take imo.

As you can see in the link (and thumbnail) below, all of the victims appear to be white


Stick to Europe, AA.
Mystery solved: Who among us(much of the female population included)HASN'T experienced a near-uncontrollable urge to knock a White woman or 800 out, especially between 2016-today?

This is the same demographic who's most likely to embrace Wokeness in all of it's vile entirety
 

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This is crazy...WTF has happened to any sort of respect for other human beings?

These dudes should be thrown in a jail cell for a night and let the other inmates know they like randomly punching women...pretty sure they would be begging to get out within a few minutes as they got beat senseless.

It doesn't say they are incels, but what other type of person would have enough hatred for women to just do something like that?

NYC is basically catch and release. You have to seriously fvck up to get arrested right now in nyc. Therefore, it’s highly likely that the girl in the article who seems to not be from the city, who happens to like dressing loud, who probably (I almost guarantee) lives in lower manhattan or Williamsburg Brooklyn, pissed off one of the crazy people there with her mere presence. The mental health population is out of control.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NYC is basically catch and release. You have to seriously fvck up to get arrested right now in nyc. Therefore, it’s highly likely that the girl in the article who seems to not be from the city, who happens to like dressing loud, who probably (I almost guarantee) lives in lower manhattan or Williamsburg Brooklyn, pissed off one of the crazy people there with her mere presence. The mental health population is out of control.
It's happened to several women in the past week or two, and those are only the ones who commented or replied back to the person originally posting.
 

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It doesn't say they are incels, but what other type of person would have enough hatred for women to just do something like that?
You don't need to blame incels.

There is an entire religion that thinks that women are trash if they behave like american women.
 

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You don't need to blame incels.

There is an entire religion that thinks that women are trash if they behave like american women.
They only beat their wives in private, not random people in public.
 

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It's black guys doing this, surprise surprise.

I'd need to know how the women voted before deciding whether to feel sorry for them.

At any rate, it's one less person texting and walking while expecting people to move out of their way.

I applaud my black crime loving brothers.
 

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I wouldn’t mind if “Karens” started getting punched in the face :rofl:. Maybe that would encourage them to adjust their attitudes.
 

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I don't know if this is incel perpetrated. Most incels are wimps who complain on the internet and aren't physically imposing. I doubt most incels could pull this off.
 

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Yep, looks like the singer of the VIllage People.

Wow, NYC folks are really soft on crime!
Stora, her alleged attacker, made an unsuccessful City Council bid in District 9 last year, losing to Democrat Yusef Salaam, who was falsely convicted of raping a white woman in Central Park in 1989 along with four other black teens.
 

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Incels? It's a single black man doing all of it.
 

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It doesn't say they are incels, but what other type of person would have enough hatred for women to just do something like that?
A crazy person? Thats a huge huge huge assumption they are incels.

It’s much more likely an incel would gets guns and ammo and shoot 200 people in a park or school than touch a white blond woman in her 20s.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't know if this is incel perpetrated. Most incels are wimps who complain on the internet and aren't physically imposing. I doubt most incels could pull this off.
Yes, incels are far too screwed up to commit mass violence ... :rolleyes:


 

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Yes, incels are far too screwed up to commit mass violence ... :rolleyes:


Most incels are not perpetrating violence. Only a small percentage of incels actually do mass violence.
 

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My cousin works in NYC and my family is concerned about this and the dramatic increase in subway violence on women.


My cousin works in NYC and has been called “white b-tch,” had her shoes urinated on, and been shoved.

Men are not permitted to defend women these days, let alone female family members, so I’m not sure how this can be corrected.

This couple’s man had to endure verbal abuse unto his wife with baby present.


It doesn't say they are incels, but what other type of person would have enough hatred for women to just do something like that?
Likely most men have been incel at some point or another and don’t hate women. But yes, it is likely whoever is punching women in their faces is an incel.

Several posters on here appear to be quite vindictive towards women and take pleasure in their suffering. “Haha, look at this post-wall b-tch crying on TikTok.”

If I recall correctly, last year, in NYC, there was a man pushing the stroller of his kid (he’s not an incel) and hip checking women who said the kid was cute.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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