"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Anyone tried the facebook dating app/feature?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
AureliusMaximus
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FB is for exactly that..
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
I'm not a fan of OLD in general due to its too ineffective, but as when it comes to FB it stinks. FB is dying along with the old people using it..
Meeting girls IRL has a much higher conversion rate and requires less effort imo.
can you post statistics ?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Facebook works if you're after milfs and cougars, maybe OP wants that.
You can very easily look up OLD stats to see that Men outnumber women 9:1. You don't want to waste your time there.
Just go out and approach, do a few warm up approaches and you will get in the zone.
AureliusMaximus
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True, it might work.
AureliusMaximus
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It's simply a plain simple fact that OLD has a very poor conversion rate vs. IRL.
Example:
If I talk to 10 chicks in IRL I will at least get 2 out of 10, (to a date).
That is a conversion rate of 20%. (Even if 1 out of 10 then that is still a 10% conversion rate).
To do the same in OLD you need to go up in the number of 100'reds and the conversion rate will be close to 1%. It is not worth the effort.