"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Anyone tried the facebook dating app/feature?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
FB is for exactly that..
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
I'm not a fan of OLD in general due to its too ineffective, but as when it comes to FB it stinks. FB is dying along with the old people using it..
Meeting girls IRL has a much higher conversion rate and requires less effort imo.
can you post statistics ?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Facebook works if you're after milfs and cougars, maybe OP wants that.
You can very easily look up OLD stats to see that Men outnumber women 9:1. You don't want to waste your time there.
Just go out and approach, do a few warm up approaches and you will get in the zone.
AureliusMaximus
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True, it might work.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
It's simply a plain simple fact that OLD has a very poor conversion rate vs. IRL.
Example:
If I talk to 10 chicks in IRL I will at least get 2 out of 10, (to a date).
That is a conversion rate of 20%. (Even if 1 out of 10 then that is still a 10% conversion rate).
To do the same in OLD you need to go up in the number of 100'reds and the conversion rate will be close to 1%. It is not worth the effort.