"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Anyone tried the facebook dating app/feature?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
FB is for exactly that..
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
I'm not a fan of OLD in general due to its too ineffective, but as when it comes to FB it stinks. FB is dying along with the old people using it..
Meeting girls IRL has a much higher conversion rate and requires less effort imo.
can you post statistics ?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Facebook works if you're after milfs and cougars, maybe OP wants that.
You can very easily look up OLD stats to see that Men outnumber women 9:1. You don't want to waste your time there.
Just go out and approach, do a few warm up approaches and you will get in the zone.
AureliusMaximus
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True, it might work.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
It's simply a plain simple fact that OLD has a very poor conversion rate vs. IRL.
Example:
If I talk to 10 chicks in IRL I will at least get 2 out of 10, (to a date).
That is a conversion rate of 20%. (Even if 1 out of 10 then that is still a 10% conversion rate).
To do the same in OLD you need to go up in the number of 100'reds and the conversion rate will be close to 1%. It is not worth the effort.