"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Anyone tried the facebook dating app/feature?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
AureliusMaximus
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FB is for exactly that..
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
I'm not a fan of OLD in general due to its too ineffective, but as when it comes to FB it stinks. FB is dying along with the old people using it..
Meeting girls IRL has a much higher conversion rate and requires less effort imo.
can you post statistics ?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Facebook works if you're after milfs and cougars, maybe OP wants that.
You can very easily look up OLD stats to see that Men outnumber women 9:1. You don't want to waste your time there.
Just go out and approach, do a few warm up approaches and you will get in the zone.
AureliusMaximus
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True, it might work.
AureliusMaximus
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It's simply a plain simple fact that OLD has a very poor conversion rate vs. IRL.
Example:
If I talk to 10 chicks in IRL I will at least get 2 out of 10, (to a date).
That is a conversion rate of 20%. (Even if 1 out of 10 then that is still a 10% conversion rate).
To do the same in OLD you need to go up in the number of 100'reds and the conversion rate will be close to 1%. It is not worth the effort.