picard
Master Don Juan
Has anyone met a woman through speed dating event? Is there pros & cons to this event?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Anyone tried speed dating event?
- Thread starter picard
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
picard
Master Don Juan
Is there any Canadian who had tried single in the city speed dating event in Canada?
this is the URL http://www.singleinthecity.ca/cgi-bin/events.cgi?p=summary
this is the URL http://www.singleinthecity.ca/cgi-bin/events.cgi?p=summary
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picard
Master Don Juan
I went to the speed dating event. It was really fun. There were 22 gals/ 22 guys in the room. Each guy has 4 min to present his personality to the ladies. I haven't received reply from the event organizer if I got a match. I am fumming mad. I left several voicemail messages. :cuss: I get a hold of them by any means.
I finally contact the organizer of dating event. They told me that I didn't have a match. I am shocked !!! All the women turn me down. I might not look like brad pitt but I am no chopped liver.
I will try again.:rock:
I finally contact the organizer of dating event. They told me that I didn't have a match. I am shocked !!! All the women turn me down. I might not look like brad pitt but I am no chopped liver.
I will try again.:rock:
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iveyleeger
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So the upside is the chance to meet 22 women in one evening . . . and the downside is the chance to get rejected by 22 women in one evening.
Wow. I definitely could not handle that. Props to you for going, though, I think it takes some courage.
Wow. I definitely could not handle that. Props to you for going, though, I think it takes some courage.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Cesare Cardinali
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I have done a few speed dating events and they rock.
You need to be well dressed and come up with some clever and interesting routines based on the simple questions you'll ask and get asked. i.e. "what do you do for a living". "what do you do for fun" etc. You only have five minutes to chat these chicks up so you'd better plan ahead. It's like a job interview. If no chicks pick you it means you really did not prepare. They are all single and wanting to meet new people, so you need to be your best self, be fun, charming, interested in them, etc.
I matched with every chick I picked (and I was selective) and got a few dates and lays out of the whole thing. Definately worth the time and money.
Don't give up on it.
Cesare Cardinali
You need to be well dressed and come up with some clever and interesting routines based on the simple questions you'll ask and get asked. i.e. "what do you do for a living". "what do you do for fun" etc. You only have five minutes to chat these chicks up so you'd better plan ahead. It's like a job interview. If no chicks pick you it means you really did not prepare. They are all single and wanting to meet new people, so you need to be your best self, be fun, charming, interested in them, etc.
I matched with every chick I picked (and I was selective) and got a few dates and lays out of the whole thing. Definately worth the time and money.
Don't give up on it.
Cesare Cardinali