picard
Master Don Juan
Has anyone met a woman through speed dating event? Is there pros & cons to this event?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Anyone tried speed dating event?
- Thread starter picard
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
picard
Master Don Juan
Is there any Canadian who had tried single in the city speed dating event in Canada?
this is the URL http://www.singleinthecity.ca/cgi-bin/events.cgi?p=summary
this is the URL http://www.singleinthecity.ca/cgi-bin/events.cgi?p=summary
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picard
Master Don Juan
I went to the speed dating event. It was really fun. There were 22 gals/ 22 guys in the room. Each guy has 4 min to present his personality to the ladies. I haven't received reply from the event organizer if I got a match. I am fumming mad. I left several voicemail messages. :cuss: I get a hold of them by any means.
I finally contact the organizer of dating event. They told me that I didn't have a match. I am shocked !!! All the women turn me down. I might not look like brad pitt but I am no chopped liver.
I will try again.:rock:
I finally contact the organizer of dating event. They told me that I didn't have a match. I am shocked !!! All the women turn me down. I might not look like brad pitt but I am no chopped liver.
I will try again.:rock:
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iveyleeger
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So the upside is the chance to meet 22 women in one evening . . . and the downside is the chance to get rejected by 22 women in one evening.
Wow. I definitely could not handle that. Props to you for going, though, I think it takes some courage.
Wow. I definitely could not handle that. Props to you for going, though, I think it takes some courage.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Cesare Cardinali
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I have done a few speed dating events and they rock.
You need to be well dressed and come up with some clever and interesting routines based on the simple questions you'll ask and get asked. i.e. "what do you do for a living". "what do you do for fun" etc. You only have five minutes to chat these chicks up so you'd better plan ahead. It's like a job interview. If no chicks pick you it means you really did not prepare. They are all single and wanting to meet new people, so you need to be your best self, be fun, charming, interested in them, etc.
I matched with every chick I picked (and I was selective) and got a few dates and lays out of the whole thing. Definately worth the time and money.
Don't give up on it.
Cesare Cardinali
You need to be well dressed and come up with some clever and interesting routines based on the simple questions you'll ask and get asked. i.e. "what do you do for a living". "what do you do for fun" etc. You only have five minutes to chat these chicks up so you'd better plan ahead. It's like a job interview. If no chicks pick you it means you really did not prepare. They are all single and wanting to meet new people, so you need to be your best self, be fun, charming, interested in them, etc.
I matched with every chick I picked (and I was selective) and got a few dates and lays out of the whole thing. Definately worth the time and money.
Don't give up on it.
Cesare Cardinali