picard
Master Don Juan
Has anyone met a woman through speed dating event? Is there pros & cons to this event?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Anyone tried speed dating event?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
picard
Master Don Juan
Is there any Canadian who had tried single in the city speed dating event in Canada?
this is the URL http://www.singleinthecity.ca/cgi-bin/events.cgi?p=summary
this is the URL http://www.singleinthecity.ca/cgi-bin/events.cgi?p=summary
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picard
Master Don Juan
I went to the speed dating event. It was really fun. There were 22 gals/ 22 guys in the room. Each guy has 4 min to present his personality to the ladies. I haven't received reply from the event organizer if I got a match. I am fumming mad. I left several voicemail messages. :cuss: I get a hold of them by any means.
I finally contact the organizer of dating event. They told me that I didn't have a match. I am shocked !!! All the women turn me down. I might not look like brad pitt but I am no chopped liver.
I will try again.:rock:
I finally contact the organizer of dating event. They told me that I didn't have a match. I am shocked !!! All the women turn me down. I might not look like brad pitt but I am no chopped liver.
I will try again.:rock:
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iveyleeger
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So the upside is the chance to meet 22 women in one evening . . . and the downside is the chance to get rejected by 22 women in one evening.
Wow. I definitely could not handle that. Props to you for going, though, I think it takes some courage.
Wow. I definitely could not handle that. Props to you for going, though, I think it takes some courage.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Cesare Cardinali
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I have done a few speed dating events and they rock.
You need to be well dressed and come up with some clever and interesting routines based on the simple questions you'll ask and get asked. i.e. "what do you do for a living". "what do you do for fun" etc. You only have five minutes to chat these chicks up so you'd better plan ahead. It's like a job interview. If no chicks pick you it means you really did not prepare. They are all single and wanting to meet new people, so you need to be your best self, be fun, charming, interested in them, etc.
I matched with every chick I picked (and I was selective) and got a few dates and lays out of the whole thing. Definately worth the time and money.
Don't give up on it.
Cesare Cardinali
You need to be well dressed and come up with some clever and interesting routines based on the simple questions you'll ask and get asked. i.e. "what do you do for a living". "what do you do for fun" etc. You only have five minutes to chat these chicks up so you'd better plan ahead. It's like a job interview. If no chicks pick you it means you really did not prepare. They are all single and wanting to meet new people, so you need to be your best self, be fun, charming, interested in them, etc.
I matched with every chick I picked (and I was selective) and got a few dates and lays out of the whole thing. Definately worth the time and money.
Don't give up on it.
Cesare Cardinali