BackInTheGame78
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It's a tool in the tool box. Nothing more, nothing less.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I've refused to join Facebook, and I'm not on Instagram or other apps either. In some ways I'm happy about this, but in others I'm sure I've missed out on some things.Unfortunately, it has become part of the modern dating process. A woman can meet you through an app, mutual friends, or in person and then use your IG to get more context about who you are. It shows your social life, interests, lifestyle, friends, and how other people interact with you. They use the app to get enough context and information to verify who you are and feel more comfortable with you; it is part of the vetting process.
unless this guy was using a new phone number for the good looking guy's tinder account, the algorithm probably associated his phone number with the uglier dude despite new pics.This WW analysis came up on my YT feed.
Interesting data for the good looking dude.
-> 6 days on the app
-> 2,523 swipes total(420 swipes/ day)
-> 68 chats
…Resulting in 4 dates
pretty crap return on time investment.
‘GigaChad’ needs better Game![]()
Yeah, that’s a good point. Tinder does everything they can to make sure you can’t “reset” and get a fresh start.unless this guy was using a new phone number for the good looking guy's tinder account, the algorithm probably associated his phone number with the uglier dude despite new pics.
so I think the entire "study" is bull****.
I’d like to see the 4 women, plus how they looked IRL vs their pics. That’s a lot sunk time in swiping and texting 68 to get 4 out.I mean.. 4 dates in 6 days tho. lol.
It’s his friend, some influencer named MensMaxxing.unless this guy was using a new phone number for the good looking guy's tinder account, the algorithm probably associated his phone number with the uglier dude despite new pics.
so I think the entire "study" is bull****.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
In my view, you take the vast majority of men out there and you put them in a catalog, you will get the exact same things.
1) Men boasting about their money and their job titles
2) Men posting pictures of themselves in order to show their cars, watches, and lifestyle
3) Men clearly telegraphing how badly they want to get laid or be in a relationship
4) Men revealing tons of information about themselves without even getting a date
5) Excessive smiling
To me I look at this and I just think everything about it signals weakness, desperation, low self worth, and lack of mystery. None of these men really have any "edge", they are just copies of each other. Is it no surprise that online dating is horrible?
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Sheesh. At that level of time investment the person in the video would’ve been better off going to the bar. lol.I’d like to see the 4 women, plus how they looked IRL vs their pics. That’s a lot sunk time in swiping and texting 68 to get 4 out.
Rough guesstimate in time would be 26 hours. Lot of work,
It’s his friend, some influencer named MensMaxxing.
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..who has one hell of a jawline. Woah.
I did OLD heavily for 4 months this year & got 25 dates or so..but it was a TON of matches and work. I had 100+ chats going.
those numbers look real to me.