"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone here shave their heads?

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I was thinking about that during this year... And Im thinking to change my hair style.

It have some spiritual meaning for me too... As this year I've changed a lot of stuffs and made hard decisions... Maybe it can be a way to make symbolize that.

Also, no more money spent cutting my hair.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I shave mine.

Fortunately I have a good enough head shape that it suits me.

I always kept my hair really short (like a military fade) due to two cowlicks located on my crown and front hairline that were nearly impossible to tame, so shaving it completely wasn't a big shock to me.

My hairline is receding mildly at the temples, but not bad enough where if I grew my hair out for a few weeks it would look bad.

I recommend shaving your head and see how you like it. Your hair will grow back if you change your mind.
 

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I shave mine.

Fortunately I have a good enough head shape that it suits me.

I always kept my hair really short (like a military fade) due to two cowlicks located on my crown and front hairline that were nearly impossible to tame, so shaving it completely wasn't a big shock to me.

My hairline is receding mildly at the temples, but not bad enough where if I grew my hair out for a few weeks it would look bad.

I recommend shaving your head and see how you like it. Your hair will grow back if you change your mind.
Gonna try it tomorrow... Hope it doesnt get too weird haha.

But I analyzed my head and maybe it could be good. Gonna find that out.
 

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Best decision I ever made. There’s also pride in being able to groom yourself.
Im feeling that this will be good too. I just hope to dont have a weird head.

It seems it gives some nice style.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Which is better?
Being real with you, the regular razorblades. I used Harry's razorblades to shave my head during lockdown primarily, even though they warn you on the packaging not to use it on anything other than your face. But with their shaving cream, it works well. Sometimes I would use the super cheap BIC razors but end up cutting my head in spots. The electric razor wasn't always the best at getting every spot, and being in military uniform back then, my bosses wouldn't like that.
 

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I was thinking about that during this year... And Im thinking to change my hair style.

It have some spiritual meaning for me too... As this year I've changed a lot of stuffs and made hard decisions... Maybe it can be a way to make symbolize that.

Also, no more money spent cutting my hair.
I do as I've developed bald spots about 10 years ago. Originally I tried hair sprinkles on the bald spot, but then if was mis-applied then it looked too ugly or obvious. Then I just decided to shave everything off. There is a difference of texture where the scalp is where no hair is growing vs there is hair, as the bald spot is smooth like leather. But, I think it does help and I notice subtly positive quality of interactions with women if my hair is properly shaved, not enough to say "wow", but definitely enough to notice something.
Also, if it's shaved totally down then it comes like a type of white-max as my hair is distinctly Black - I have that old Black man look with unkept greyed hair.
 

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Being real with you, the regular razorblades. I used Harry's razorblades to shave my head during lockdown primarily, even though they warn you on the packaging not to use it on anything other than your face. But with their shaving cream, it works well. Sometimes I would use the super cheap BIC razors but end up cutting my head in spots. The electric razor wasn't always the best at getting every spot, and being in military uniform back then, my bosses wouldn't like that.
Thanks man!

I think I'm gonna start with the electric too see if I will like it. I'm still a bit afraid to do that haha.

I don't know how my face would look after that. But I'll take courage to that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I do as I've developed bald spots about 10 years ago. Originally I tried hair sprinkles on the bald spot, but then if was mis-applied then it looked too ugly or obvious. Then I just decided to shave everything off. There is a difference of texture where the scalp is where no hair is growing vs there is hair, as the bald spot is smooth like leather. But, I think it does help and I notice subtly positive quality of interactions with women if my hair is properly shaved, not enough to say "wow", but definitely enough to notice something.
Also, if it's shaved totally down then it comes like a type of white-max as my hair is distinctly Black - I have that old Black man look with unkept greyed hair.
Thats nice man! I'm curious to check how my head would like withou my hair haha.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Barrister and mann makes the best shave soap in existence. Also made in the usa, if you give a fvck
 

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I'm actually shaving my head for two and a half years now, it's not bald but it's shaved,0" millimeters on sides and 1mm on top so it's basically the same. It's the best decision you can do, no hair gels, no problems with hair or anything and also women loves it more.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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