"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anyone here shave their heads?

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I was thinking about that during this year... And Im thinking to change my hair style.

It have some spiritual meaning for me too... As this year I've changed a lot of stuffs and made hard decisions... Maybe it can be a way to make symbolize that.

Also, no more money spent cutting my hair.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I shave mine.

Fortunately I have a good enough head shape that it suits me.

I always kept my hair really short (like a military fade) due to two cowlicks located on my crown and front hairline that were nearly impossible to tame, so shaving it completely wasn't a big shock to me.

My hairline is receding mildly at the temples, but not bad enough where if I grew my hair out for a few weeks it would look bad.

I recommend shaving your head and see how you like it. Your hair will grow back if you change your mind.
 

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I shave mine.

Fortunately I have a good enough head shape that it suits me.

I always kept my hair really short (like a military fade) due to two cowlicks located on my crown and front hairline that were nearly impossible to tame, so shaving it completely wasn't a big shock to me.

My hairline is receding mildly at the temples, but not bad enough where if I grew my hair out for a few weeks it would look bad.

I recommend shaving your head and see how you like it. Your hair will grow back if you change your mind.
Gonna try it tomorrow... Hope it doesnt get too weird haha.

But I analyzed my head and maybe it could be good. Gonna find that out.
 

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Best decision I ever made. There’s also pride in being able to groom yourself.
Im feeling that this will be good too. I just hope to dont have a weird head.

It seems it gives some nice style.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Which is better?
Being real with you, the regular razorblades. I used Harry's razorblades to shave my head during lockdown primarily, even though they warn you on the packaging not to use it on anything other than your face. But with their shaving cream, it works well. Sometimes I would use the super cheap BIC razors but end up cutting my head in spots. The electric razor wasn't always the best at getting every spot, and being in military uniform back then, my bosses wouldn't like that.
 

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I was thinking about that during this year... And Im thinking to change my hair style.

It have some spiritual meaning for me too... As this year I've changed a lot of stuffs and made hard decisions... Maybe it can be a way to make symbolize that.

Also, no more money spent cutting my hair.
I do as I've developed bald spots about 10 years ago. Originally I tried hair sprinkles on the bald spot, but then if was mis-applied then it looked too ugly or obvious. Then I just decided to shave everything off. There is a difference of texture where the scalp is where no hair is growing vs there is hair, as the bald spot is smooth like leather. But, I think it does help and I notice subtly positive quality of interactions with women if my hair is properly shaved, not enough to say "wow", but definitely enough to notice something.
Also, if it's shaved totally down then it comes like a type of white-max as my hair is distinctly Black - I have that old Black man look with unkept greyed hair.
 

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Being real with you, the regular razorblades. I used Harry's razorblades to shave my head during lockdown primarily, even though they warn you on the packaging not to use it on anything other than your face. But with their shaving cream, it works well. Sometimes I would use the super cheap BIC razors but end up cutting my head in spots. The electric razor wasn't always the best at getting every spot, and being in military uniform back then, my bosses wouldn't like that.
Thanks man!

I think I'm gonna start with the electric too see if I will like it. I'm still a bit afraid to do that haha.

I don't know how my face would look after that. But I'll take courage to that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I do as I've developed bald spots about 10 years ago. Originally I tried hair sprinkles on the bald spot, but then if was mis-applied then it looked too ugly or obvious. Then I just decided to shave everything off. There is a difference of texture where the scalp is where no hair is growing vs there is hair, as the bald spot is smooth like leather. But, I think it does help and I notice subtly positive quality of interactions with women if my hair is properly shaved, not enough to say "wow", but definitely enough to notice something.
Also, if it's shaved totally down then it comes like a type of white-max as my hair is distinctly Black - I have that old Black man look with unkept greyed hair.
Thats nice man! I'm curious to check how my head would like withou my hair haha.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Barrister and mann makes the best shave soap in existence. Also made in the usa, if you give a fvck
 

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I'm actually shaving my head for two and a half years now, it's not bald but it's shaved,0" millimeters on sides and 1mm on top so it's basically the same. It's the best decision you can do, no hair gels, no problems with hair or anything and also women loves it more.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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