"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone here shave their heads?

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I was thinking about that during this year... And Im thinking to change my hair style.

It have some spiritual meaning for me too... As this year I've changed a lot of stuffs and made hard decisions... Maybe it can be a way to make symbolize that.

Also, no more money spent cutting my hair.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I shave mine.

Fortunately I have a good enough head shape that it suits me.

I always kept my hair really short (like a military fade) due to two cowlicks located on my crown and front hairline that were nearly impossible to tame, so shaving it completely wasn't a big shock to me.

My hairline is receding mildly at the temples, but not bad enough where if I grew my hair out for a few weeks it would look bad.

I recommend shaving your head and see how you like it. Your hair will grow back if you change your mind.
 

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I shave mine.

Fortunately I have a good enough head shape that it suits me.

I always kept my hair really short (like a military fade) due to two cowlicks located on my crown and front hairline that were nearly impossible to tame, so shaving it completely wasn't a big shock to me.

My hairline is receding mildly at the temples, but not bad enough where if I grew my hair out for a few weeks it would look bad.

I recommend shaving your head and see how you like it. Your hair will grow back if you change your mind.
Gonna try it tomorrow... Hope it doesnt get too weird haha.

But I analyzed my head and maybe it could be good. Gonna find that out.
 

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Best decision I ever made. There’s also pride in being able to groom yourself.
Im feeling that this will be good too. I just hope to dont have a weird head.

It seems it gives some nice style.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Which is better?
Being real with you, the regular razorblades. I used Harry's razorblades to shave my head during lockdown primarily, even though they warn you on the packaging not to use it on anything other than your face. But with their shaving cream, it works well. Sometimes I would use the super cheap BIC razors but end up cutting my head in spots. The electric razor wasn't always the best at getting every spot, and being in military uniform back then, my bosses wouldn't like that.
 

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I was thinking about that during this year... And Im thinking to change my hair style.

It have some spiritual meaning for me too... As this year I've changed a lot of stuffs and made hard decisions... Maybe it can be a way to make symbolize that.

Also, no more money spent cutting my hair.
I do as I've developed bald spots about 10 years ago. Originally I tried hair sprinkles on the bald spot, but then if was mis-applied then it looked too ugly or obvious. Then I just decided to shave everything off. There is a difference of texture where the scalp is where no hair is growing vs there is hair, as the bald spot is smooth like leather. But, I think it does help and I notice subtly positive quality of interactions with women if my hair is properly shaved, not enough to say "wow", but definitely enough to notice something.
Also, if it's shaved totally down then it comes like a type of white-max as my hair is distinctly Black - I have that old Black man look with unkept greyed hair.
 

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Being real with you, the regular razorblades. I used Harry's razorblades to shave my head during lockdown primarily, even though they warn you on the packaging not to use it on anything other than your face. But with their shaving cream, it works well. Sometimes I would use the super cheap BIC razors but end up cutting my head in spots. The electric razor wasn't always the best at getting every spot, and being in military uniform back then, my bosses wouldn't like that.
Thanks man!

I think I'm gonna start with the electric too see if I will like it. I'm still a bit afraid to do that haha.

I don't know how my face would look after that. But I'll take courage to that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I do as I've developed bald spots about 10 years ago. Originally I tried hair sprinkles on the bald spot, but then if was mis-applied then it looked too ugly or obvious. Then I just decided to shave everything off. There is a difference of texture where the scalp is where no hair is growing vs there is hair, as the bald spot is smooth like leather. But, I think it does help and I notice subtly positive quality of interactions with women if my hair is properly shaved, not enough to say "wow", but definitely enough to notice something.
Also, if it's shaved totally down then it comes like a type of white-max as my hair is distinctly Black - I have that old Black man look with unkept greyed hair.
Thats nice man! I'm curious to check how my head would like withou my hair haha.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Barrister and mann makes the best shave soap in existence. Also made in the usa, if you give a fvck
 

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I'm actually shaving my head for two and a half years now, it's not bald but it's shaved,0" millimeters on sides and 1mm on top so it's basically the same. It's the best decision you can do, no hair gels, no problems with hair or anything and also women loves it more.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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