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Anyone here experienced with arranged marriage dating?

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Trying it out first time and posting to see if others have done this and any tips? I'm aware to have low expectations and know that it could be dating multiple women till I end up with a match...ill talk about this in a bit
 

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I've never heard of arranged marriage dating but I know quite a few doctor friends who are in arranged marriages. They all cheat on there wives and because of the culture being arabic or pakistani it's pretty much accepted they won't divorce because the shame it would bring upon the family.

Most of them seem unhappy.
 

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I've never heard of arranged marriage dating but I know quite a few doctor friends who are in arranged marriages. They all cheat on there wives and because of the culture being arabic or pakistani it's pretty much accepted they won't divorce because the shame it would bring upon the family.

Most of them seem unhappy.
Arranged marriage dating= both parties being hooked up (arranged)...meeting each other /talking (dating) for a period of time to see if they are compatible for long term marriage...than getting engaged
 

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Arranged marriage dating= both parties being hooked up (arranged)...meeting each other /talking (dating) for a period of time to see if they are compatible for long term marriage...than getting engaged
Isn't that what the dating is supposed to be? When did dating become arranged marriage dating. I thought the idea of dating and becoming exclusive was the period of time to see if someone was a potential for LTR and marriage. It seems to me the majority of girls that would be down for "arranged marriage dating" would be religious variety like jehovah's witnesses or protestants or muslims. Good luck in your endeavors though!
 

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I have a different perspective on arranged marriages. It can work if there is no westernization involved and both are blue pill and have deep societal programming. Arranged marriages are pretty prevalent in the east and as such have the cultural and deep societal programming to make it work for some.

Arranged marriages are basically your parents playing matchmaker to ensure the survival and prosperity of their families. But unfortunately, this equates often to artificial things like the type of job, status, money, possessions that factor into this matchmaking. And as the family treats it like some investment, the family tends to be heavily involved in any issues that may arise.

Another dynamic I see is that some arranged marriages work merely because it's treated more like a friend/business partner situation. The gal knows that she has to be a good wife by cooking, house chores, taking care of the kids, and pleasing her man. The guy in return has his duties to protect the family, get a good job, provide, etc. Because it's looked at more as a business partnership, there is merely tasks and less emotions involved on both ends. Does this equate to happiness? Not necessarily but if the societal programming and cultural pressures are there in place, both parties treat this more as a duty then love in most cases.

Obviously these days with social media, western influences, red pill, etc, arranged marriages would seem like an uphill battle for them to last like they used to. I have and known some Indian friends so this is all based on observation and conversation with others so take it with a grain of salt.
 

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I wish my culture did this, would be a great backup plan. U indians and arabs have are lucky
 
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A lot of couples in my communities from arranged marriages are American modern, educated , and the chick is good looking a lot lol. Dude is socially equipped and okay job too at the very least lol
 
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